If you do the 2-3-4 nap schedule, when do you feed them milk - before or after nap?

I had been doing EAS, but when she dropped to 2 naps we did 2-3-4 and i started feeding her before her naps because it seemed like a long time between feeds compared to when she was doing 3 naps. Now it seems like she cant self sooth and maybe i need to stop feeding her before naps