My DD1 is 2years 3months old. She has always been on the higher needs for sleep. She didn't drop down to one nap until 18months and naps have been 2-3hrs with 11-12 hours overnight. Her schedule has been: sleep 8pm-7am, nap from 12pm-2/3pm.

For the past 6 wks she has been fighting naps and/or going to bed late. She goes to daycare 3days/week and generally has been napping well there. At home, i put her in bed at 12/12:30pm and leave her there for 2 hours. She does not try to get out and will play quietly for 2 hours if she doesnt sleep. On days she doesn't nap, i can put her down around 7pm and she goes to sleep easily. On daycare days, I put her to bed at 8pm and sometimes she doesn't fall asleep until 10pm. She stays in bed talking to herself.

Is she dropping her nap already??? Do I continue to make her nap? Do I let her lay in bed by herself for 2 hours at bedtime or move bedtime later?