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I think your reaction is totally normal. Don't feel guilty for not being ready. You will get through this.

HUGS! I think what you're experiencing is totally normal. Even couples that are trying often freak out when they get that positive test!

That said, you have time to figure things out!!! Try not to stress too much - you guys will figure out a way to make this work and it's totally okay to spend some of that time freaking out!

Congrats, my kiddos are 18 months apart and although there are hard days, it's totally awesome and worth it!

This is exactly how I felt when I found out we were expecting #2!! Don't feel bad about it- it's a huge life change! You will (eventually) get used to the idea and get excited. It's takes some time- don't be down on yourself for that!!

awww it's ok. You have 9 months of pregnancy to adjust to this idea!

Next summer isn't that far off, you're only a little bit early! Its always shocking when you have a surprise pregnancy, but you're going to be just fine and you will find a way to make it work. Sure, it's going to be rough at first, but they will be so close in age it will be so much fun when they get a little older!

@Bluebonnet: That sounds so awesome... maybe I need to revisit the idea of a nanny.

Congrats!!! My babies will be 12.5 months apart. Normal reaction

Totally normal. I wasn't ready for two right after having our girl, but my husband was so eager to get it on before my checkup after having her that he swore he was OK with another in a year. I made him go buy condoms, lol.

We were trying & I spent the first 2 weeks after finding out telling DH that maybe this was a bad idea & we were ruining DD's childhood. Now I'm nervous to have babies 19 months apart but am pretty excited to welcome a new little one to our family! Congrats! You will find a different groove that will work for you & your new family!

@fuzzypeaches: I don't have kids yet but I have a feeling the hard part is not necessarily having 2 young children but the amount of hours that you work. I too work 60-70 hrs per week so I can imagine how tired you must be with a child. As long as you can find someone to help you out until you are part-time, I think you'll be fine. As others have said, just take it one day at a time and ask for help when you need it. Congrats on your pregnancy!

@fuzzypeaches: I think it's totally normal to feel this way, I also felt the same way when I found out I was pregnant with #2. Now I have 2 boys that are 23 months apart and I'm totally loving the age gap even though some (most) days are tough now but I know they will grow up to be the best of friends. So don't worry and congrats!!

I found out I was pregnant again when DD was 8 months old. My kids are 17 months apart. Normal reaction. I cried. I couldn't even tell my SO. I just shakingly gave him the pee stick. Now I can imagine life any different. DD is now 2 and DS is 9 months.

I found out I was pregnant when my LO was 10 months old, and they are 17 months apart (lo2 came a month early, and I didn't realize I was pregnant until I was 6 weeks).

I cried. I was not happy. I was not excited. I wanted a second kid, but I was also just getting my life back.

There are days where it is just crazy pants at my house.
But LO2 has the most kissable cheeks and the greatest smile and I wouldn't trade him for anything - definitely not for a little more calm and quiet. (Although I would take a night off and a babysitter any day!)

If it helps, lo1 became a way better sleeper sometime between 13-15 months, I can't remember exactly.

My boys are 2 years old and 8 months. Two under two is a challenge but I wouldnt have it any other way. I would be lying if I said everyday is sun shine and rainbows but seeing them play together just melts my heart. My 2 year old loves his little brother most of time. It is completely normal to freak out and be worried. I know I was and we were trying to have them close together.

Sounds like your SO is pretty excited. Congrats!

It can be so scary and so overwhelming. Try not to beat yourself up too much for your feelings. I cried A LOT!!! like a ridiculous amount, and embarrassing amount. I promise you the news will settle and you will figure things out. As far as handling them once #2 comes along, it can be tiring and stressful at first but eventually you will get into a new routine and it will just seem normal. People ask me all the time how I manage and what its like having kids so close together and I often can't even come up with an answer. I don't know any different. It will be fine and you will do great with your kids