I'm curious to see whose parents are active as grandparents and whose are not. Before I had kids I would've always imagined that my kids would have a ball with my mom. Now that I have kids, DS is 3 and DD is 2 months, I must say the most active grandparents are my SMIL and stepmom.

I know age factors in for some but just curious to see. Also if age and location is not a factor into why they're not active with your children, does it bother you?

My mom would have DS watch TV all day if she could and not really engage with DS unless to eat. It drives me nuts.