Hi,

I am seeking advice from ppl in this forum Am I wrong if I mind not being acknowledged.

I'm a married male with 2yr old child, basically the problem is with brother in law. My wife is the only sister he has, this guy would never to get involved with us (or me) as Immediate family member unless he has something to ask from us. We live in a different state , but whenever we are in same town he would not bother to meetup or invite us home.

Recently I got very very frustrated when he did not call us or wished us on our daughters 2nd bday. I said to my wife that it's really ridiculous that he would not remember our daughter's bday, to this wife actually started giving excuses saying he might have been busy nd all. But this is not something new, he did not even called on her 1st day and never bother to wish us on our day. On the contrary, we always wish him and try to be upfront as his younger to us.

But now I feel it was a waste of time keep expectation to maintain family relationship, his bday was last month and I did not wish him and will try to recuperate same disconnected behavior in future as well .

Am I wrong if I mind not being acknowledged?

I am being childish here or fair?