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@Adira: no. That sounds horrible haha! I'll go crazy if they take away my crosshairs! I'm already symptom spotting lol. "Oh, that headache that woke me up 2 nights ago, maybe that was implantation, the surge of hormones could give me a headache.. it felt like my headache before I went into labour " "I wonder if you'll get a LH surge the day of implantation and that's why I had an almost positive OPK a few days ago.." hahaha
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today, and still no AF. So not only am I not pregnant, but now my body decides to start playing tricks on me 
oh well, I guess a longer LP is a good thing. Can't wait for it to come so I can start fresh!
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Negative for me today too. Just going to keep testing until I start AF.
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@KelLeeLeee: I totally know what you mean. Despite having a chemical/ early mc, I was glad to start AF because it means you can start all over. What dpo are you? Are you going to roll call in May?
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@simplyfelicity: 14 dpo, feels like AF is about to start any minute. I am so sorry for your loss, it's sucks to be so close to something and then it get taken away. I don't think I will be joining the May thread, I'm hoping to relax as much as possible next cycle and try and focus on other things besides TTC, I've been getting way too worked up lately.
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@KelLeeLeee: I completely understand! I am taking a totally chill approach this month. I can't do this all over again. It is too draining/ exhausting. I don't know about you, but I felt like it took over my life. I am roll calling just to keep positive, but...my mantra is "no stress, just sex."
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@simplyfelicity: haha I like that, I might steal
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I'm rolling over y'all! AF showed up
Good luck to the rest of your POASers--I hope the end of April treats you very well
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@lilyofthewest: @eabae: so sorry ladies! I hope we all get our may flowers!
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@lilyofthewest: It's still pretty early for you today though right? Hopefully you're not out.
@eabae: Sorry! Good luck in May!I tested today at 8/9 DPO because I have 20 wondfos and no self control.
No surprise there. I'll keep testing until I start spotting or AF shows, but even if I'm not pregnant, I'm glad that this cycle should be less than 40 days. Gives me hope that I'm almost back to normal.
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@MrsMccarthy: Same here! I have a good feeling about May!
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@Aria: Yup, only 8 or 9 DPO (not sure if I O'd on CD14 or 15). So, I'll keep peeing on a(t least one) stick a day until I get a period or a positive. Last luteal phase was only 10 days, so, not much longer to wait.
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@lilyofthewest: oh okay! Fx for you then! You are SO not out
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Negative again today, but, temp still up and no AF yet. Still thinking this is not the month, but, I'll keep on testing!
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@eabae: Aww boo! Go check in on the May board and I hope May will bring you a baby (and not flowers)!
Alright ladies in the home stretch... I'm keeping you all on until AF!
Dec/Jan mamas to bee:
Mrs. Lilac Adira Ustechie Winniebee :bfp:MrsScallop Brawly Whenoceansrise SimplyFelicity OliviaOblivia POAS Roll-Call 4/28
4/29
4/30 - RonniLeigh, Lilyofthewest, Aria, MrsB2012, Kelleeleee, As Time Goes ByRollovers: Mrshansen82, AnyaJenkins, Keepcalmcarrie, HolisticMama, Hellonheels, Crystal, DrJolene, Gigi2, MaryM, DC Yoga Bee, Tamm, Kellie_Deluxe, Marfi (?), Mrsmccarthy, Gigi2, Darget, Espion, LadyHibiscus, ValentineMommy, Lil Bean, Tidybee, Eabae
Cheerleaders: Littlebit, Lamariniere, Autumnlove, Abcmrs, Lovelyplum, Mrs.Panda, Bakerbee, Mrsstar, Tidybee, Chicalgobee, Radish, theotherstark, Kbee, Luv2beamom. Mrs. Chickadee, LittleK
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Do you guys think FF could have gotten my O date wrong? I'm 99% sure that's when I O'd but AF is nowhere to be found. My period always comes 13 days after, it's now day 15, I made no changes to my diet or lifestyle....
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@KelLeeLeee: Hmm. At worst you should still O the day or two after the positive OPK. But your temp did jump the highest after the positive OPK too... I feel like you gotta be starting AF anytime soon, or there is a possibility you might get a BFP still?
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@snowjewelz:
yesterday on FRER and wondfo, I guess I could technically have a slim chance if I implanted super late, but I doubt it, I can test tonight maybe, I'm just so confused!
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@KelLeeLeee: I think that date makes the most sense for your O date with the temp shift right after. Who knows though. I wouldn't test tonight, unless you have a surplus of tests to use, I'd wait until tomorrow morning. Good luck, fingers crossed for you
I tested today, a BFN, which is not surprising. My chart is really messed up, and I never got a positive OPK this month. It's super annoying because I think I got a batch of dud OPK's. I emailed the company and they said they hadn't had any complaints so far, but they sent me a new package. I noticed the control line was really light on this batch and last week, I used the same urine same and tested with 2 different OPKs from different lot numbers and got very different results. Anyways, I had a really close to positive about 5 days ago I think so I'm wondering if I missed my surge. I've finally had 3 days of a temp shift so I think FF might change my O date in the next few days. I'll attach a pic of my chart from my phone after this. However, if my O date does change, we didn't have great BD timing. Oh well, time will tell
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@KelLeeLeee: Boo, I hope something changes soon so you're out of limbo!
@MrsB2012: I'm sorry after all this time O is still not confirmed!! Your temps are high now so you could have just O'd, which is not totally abnormal... Just a longer cycle!
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@MrsB2012: it almost looks like you O'd CD23 based on your cm and that temp jump, if that's when you did at least you got the day before!
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again today at 9/10 DPO, we'll see what tomorrow brings. At least I have a vacation coming up soon to either celebrate or console myself!
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@Aria: Still early, fx for you!
Vacation is great! I was away from like 8 DPO on and I didn't care if I was KU at all!
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This is my first full cycle off BCP and sitting at cd32 I have no signs of AF. Pre-BCP I was regular 28/29 day cycles. I know some people take a while to level out and regulate their cycles, but I'm apparently very impatient. At what point should I contact my gynocologist to make sure everything is okay/see if we can speed this process up?
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@MrsB2012: oo! I would say you O'd on cd23, based on temp jump and darkest OPK. Which is great cuz you BD'd a bunch leading up to it. FF will likely change your crosshairs tmrw- it was probably thrown off by your CM and OPK reports. I find temp the most reliable. No worries.
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@As Time Goes By: i got my first period last time on day 36 I think? Then a 30 day cycle then 45 (which I ended up getting pregnant on but miscarrying). I called my OB on the 45 day cycle and she said it takes many women 6 months to regulate so basically to wait it out until then.
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@winniebee: thanks!
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AF is here! So relieved to be out of limbo. I'm going to be NTNP for now, and just focus on being really healthy and enjoy my summer
I'll be popping in the May boards to cheer everyone on though!
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@As Time Goes By: It wasn't off BCP, but my first cycle postpartum was 43 days. The next was 38, and then I got pregnant the third! So I'm guessing your cycle is just regulating.
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10 DPO,
, temp still up, no AF yet. If I make the whole day without AF then luteal phase is lengthening.
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@KelLeeLeee: phew! glad you're out of limbo!
Dec/Jan mamas to bee:
Mrs. Lilac Adira Ustechie Winniebee :bfp:MrsScallop Brawly Whenoceansrise OliviaOblivia POAS Roll-Call 4/29
4/30 - RonniLeigh, Lilyofthewest, Aria, MrsB2012, As Time Goes ByRollovers: Mrshansen82, AnyaJenkins, Keepcalmcarrie, HolisticMama, Hellonheels, Crystal, DrJolene, Gigi2, MaryM, DC Yoga Bee, Tamm, Kellie_Deluxe, Marfi (?), Mrsmccarthy, Gigi2, Darget, Espion, LadyHibiscus, ValentineMommy, Lil Bean, Tidybee, Eabae, Kelleeleee
Cheerleaders: Littlebit, Lamariniere, Autumnlove, Abcmrs, Lovelyplum, Mrs.Panda, Bakerbee, Mrsstar, Tidybee, Chicalgobee, Radish, theotherstark, Kbee, Luv2beamom. Mrs. Chickadee, LittleK
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@snowjewelz: All of my worries for nothing...AF showed this morning.
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@As Time Goes By: Bummer AF showed up! But at least you didn't have a completely ridiculously long cycle! Good luck in May!
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@As Time Goes By: Aww I am sorry AF showed up! But I know you're relieved. Onto next month!! Fx for you!
Dec/Jan mamas to bee:
Mrs. Lilac Adira Ustechie Winniebee :bfp:MrsScallop Brawly Whenoceansrise OliviaOblivia POAS Roll-Call
4/29
4/30 - RonniLeigh, Lilyofthewest, Aria, MrsB2012Rollovers: Mrshansen82, AnyaJenkins, Keepcalmcarrie, HolisticMama, Hellonheels, Crystal, DrJolene, Gigi2, MaryM, DC Yoga Bee, Tamm, Kellie_Deluxe, Marfi (?), Mrsmccarthy, Gigi2, Darget, Espion, LadyHibiscus, ValentineMommy, Lil Bean, Tidybee, Eabae, Kelleeleee, As Time Goes By
Cheerleaders: Littlebit, Lamariniere, Autumnlove, Abcmrs, Lovelyplum, Mrs.Panda, Bakerbee, Mrsstar, Tidybee, Chicalgobee, Radish, theotherstark, Kbee, Luv2beamom. Mrs. Chickadee, LittleK
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yet again, and I started spotting this morning, right on time. AF will be here on Thursday I'm sure. I won't be testing anymore, I'm moving on to May!
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@KelLeeLeee: Sounds like a great plan. TTC is so draining.
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I have peed on...many...sticks today. I keep thinking I see the faint smudgey shadow of a line. But then I look again and I can't see it. Aggh. Hoping tomorrow that I will know if I'm crazy and pregnant or just crazy.
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@lilyofthewest: Keep going! 10 DPO can be too early. Many bees get stark white BFNs still at this point!
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@lilyofthewest: Do you have a picture? We can always help you decide whether or not you're crazy.
today, and still no AF. So not only am I not pregnant, but now my body decides to start playing tricks on me 
oh well, I guess a longer LP is a good thing. Can't wait for it to come so I can start fresh!
Mrs. Lilac 
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