Hi bees,

I've been reading your posts for a long time now, and finally have joined! My fiance and I are one year away from TTC. This is my first post, but I've been following the community for so long now I already feel at home!

So here's my question for you: how did you find happiness/contentment in the last year leading up to TTC when you had baby fever? I don't think I'm alone when I say it's really hard! I'm so excited, have read so much about TTC, and even obsess every month that maybe a 'happy accident' will have come my way - I will be the first to admit it comes close to an unhealthy obsession.

I've read the standard advice: travel! enjoy your time with your SO! sleep in!

But what about dealing with the reality of having a baby fever that doesn't really go away? I would love your insight, or even just a hug!