Hi!
A family member has asked me what we are doing on Dec 24 or 25th. We actually really wanted LO’s first Xmas to be at home, he will be almost 8months by then. I said we haven’t worked out the details yet but we would like to have it at home for LO’s first Xmas. This family member never comes to my house when we have special occasions here. I live 45min from her so I know she doesn’t want to make he drive. I know how this family member is and she will likely be upset about my response. I wasn’t really wanting to travel 40min to her house with LO. It’s so much easier to do it here. Did anyone else have their LO’s first Xmas at home? Am I asking too much to have it at our house?

She’s only visited LO once at our house since LO was born and he’s almost 5m. She asked me to go to her house to visit with LO. Why is it better for me to drive 40min with a 5mo?