My son’s bday is December 28, but we are having his party on the 17 so friends can actually come (I didn’t think would care about this for years to come, and was planning to stick with family parties, but he went to so many preschool parties he’s been talking about his birthday all year!). It’s already tough having this gift extravaganza of Christmas and birthday, should I just give him his birthday gifts and celebrate on the party day? Otherwise it’s 3 days of presents... even though I said no gifts, I am sure he’ll get some. Maybe just have a fun dinner he likes and cake on his real bday ? I think maybe In the future we’ll have his party in January.