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  1. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @MaryM: I am glad your day was peaceful.

  2. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @simplyfelicity: Yep, 6 weeks Monday.

  3. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @jaguar: Ugh...I do feel like the worst of the emotional stuff has passed but AF...WHERE ARE YOU?!

    How are you?

  4. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @simplyfelicity: I'm ok. So tired after this morning's workout, but hubby & I are dropping Georgia off to his parents place and having a nice lunch out. I've been looking forward to it for ages, since I've worked out SO hard this week! Treat date. yummy!

  5. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @jaguar: Have fun!

  6. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    .... And AF has arrived!!!!!

  7. Jess1483

    nectarine / 2641 posts

    @mrs bunchy: Hooraayy!!! (What an odd life we live...)

  8. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    @Jess1483: haha I know it!! I figured something was up today at work- just had these odd cramps... Never thought I would be so happy to see AF again!! Busted out the heating pad and ready to get this show on the road!!

  9. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @mrs bunchy: YAYYYYY! Have you decided what your ttc plans are? I think a lot of us will be trying around the same time.
    @Jess1483: True story.

  10. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    @simplyfelicity: well- I am planning on doing a hysteroscopy next month to check for a uterine septum. Then- ill do cycle day 3 blood work the following cycle. You see- I was supposed to get this all done before I got pregnant.. But low and behold 1 week after my HSG I got knocked up and all those protocols went down the shitter! now, we are back-tracking. We are checking with my insurance to see if they will cover a hysteroscopy for recurrent pregnancy loss, since I have no "infertility" coverage.

  11. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @mrs bunchy: Yay! I'm glad you'll get to move on to your next steps soon!

  12. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @mrs bunchy: Woohoo!!!! Who knew we'd all be cheering on AF, eh???

  13. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    @jaguar: I know! Need to make a stop at the store before work this am for tampons! How things shift...!

  14. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    @FliegepilzHut:

  15. 2PeasinaPod

    pomelo / 5524 posts

    @jaguar: Sounds like a great training program! And don't worry, I'm very weak when I cross train too...but the more you cross train and build your core muscles, the easier running will be! And you totally deserve that treat lunch date! P.S. Congrats on the cross hairs!

    @simplyfelicity: So cute! Thank you!!

    @mrs bunchy: Hooray!! Hope all goes well with your hysteroscopy when you schedule it...

  16. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    Hey Girls!

    Just checking in on my lunch break.

    Congrats for cross hairs, cross training, and AF!

    I totally commiserate with those still waiting. I had a natural MC that took longer than expected (they kept saying it would happen in a day or two and I'd go back in a week and hear it again!) that by the time it was over I was actually sort of relieved. But then continuing to have to wait was killer.

    All the waiting for things was WAY worse in my experience than anything else involved.

  17. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    Phew! This has been a looooooong week. I've exercised 5/5 days and feeling GOOD. Hanging out with preggo SIL tonight and trying to be brave and not focus on her baby stuff.... I wish this was easier.

  18. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    @jaguar: wow!! That's awesome to have that kinda motivation to work out 5 days in a row!! I work with a preggo... So I try to not focus on that everyday! It's rough. Literally had 2 crying moments in front of DH tonight. Could be a combo of AF hormones, picking up a 13 hr shift tomorrow and 8 hr shift Saturday, or trying to come to terms with all these losses.

    Or maybe the smith and forge I had??

  19. mrs bunchy

    kiwi / 533 posts

    @MaryM: I agree- waiting these last 6 weeks for AF was so har and drawn out. I was literally praying for it to come.

  20. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @mrs bunchy: Oh you poor thing. I've had those crumple moments as well, they're so tiring and come out of the blue.

  21. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @mrs bunchy: You give me hope that mine is just around the corner!

  22. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    DH and I are watching my two year old niece tonight. Makes me feel happy/sad/impatient to have a family. She is so enamored of him. Ugh...is it weird that it makes my womb "hurt?" Probably but it is true...

  23. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @simplyfelicity: Nope...not weird. I totally get that!

    @mrs bunchy:

  24. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @simplyfelicity: My ovaries hurt ALL THE TIME around wee ones. Absolutely not you. x

  25. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @FliegepilzHut: @jaguar: Glad you guys understand.

    Hanging out with my newest nephew (born on Tuesday.) Thought it would be harder than it is. Probably because my sis was 6 months when I found out I was KU. I feel more removed than anything else. He's cute though.

  26. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @simplyfelicity: I have total baby lust... Glad it wasn't too rough hanging with your sister and new nephew!

  27. MaryM

    pomelo / 5129 posts

    I feel like it's different with family too. My SIL's kids are like therapy to me. I held her 2 year old til I ached in July (she was teething, so cuddlier than normal) and last time I went home I nearly kidnapped her. I mean, they have 8. They can spare one, right??

  28. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @MaryM: I would have totally kidnapped her/one...

  29. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @MaryM: 8!?!? Wow. Yeah, take one.

  30. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @simplyfelicity: Oh wee baby.

    I went baby clothes shopping with SIL last night. Did better than I thought. x

  31. Jess1483

    nectarine / 2641 posts

    I held my friend's week-old baby today and totally melted. It wasn't sad for me though, which was a bit surprising. He was so small and squishy!

  32. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @Jess1483: @jaguar: I am so glad to hear this. I am still disappointed and sad that it happened but I am not as devastated anymore. I don't have it on my mind ALL the time like I used to. It's a huge relief.

  33. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    Maybe this is part of the grieving process - being able to move on a little bit, one day at a time, ya know? That's how I'm trying to, anyway.

  34. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @jaguar: Completely agree. There will be good moments and bad moments but I am definitely welcoming the good and trying to view the future with some hope.

  35. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @simplyfelicity:

  36. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    6dpo today. I have a bloods referral to check progesterone.. just deciding when to have it done. Could do it tomorrow.... or wait another few days & hope for a miracle conception with some hcg haha.

  37. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @jaguar: Yes to the miracle conception! My RE told me I didn't need to prevent this month...so I'm really close to you in the TWW (based on CM only)!

  38. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @jaguar: @FliegepilzHut: Heck yes on a miracle conception! Either of you ladies get your first AF yet? I wonder what time frame is normal?

    P.S. HB is being super lame and "eating" up my posts.

    ETA: I am so lame, you guys just said your dpo...home after spending two days with my sister's 4 kids. Can I use that as an excuse for forgetting common sense?

  39. FliegepilzHut

    pomegranate / 3533 posts

    @simplyfelicity: No AF yet...which means I didn't skip a month. I'm hoping for a "normal" cycle, so another 7-8 days or so. And while not impossible, a miracle is highly improbable...but a girl can dream, I guess?

  40. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    @FliegepilzHut: Well, if you and Jag are in the same spot and we all had our D&Cs around the same time, I am going to assume the same for myself. DH and I have not been careful this month but it seems pretty unlikely. I would rather wait until my first AF but I am not sure that even really matters.

    No reason to not dream. You never know.

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