Iβm trying to decide between a 16β and a 20β doll for my 2.5 year old. She was very specific that she wants a bald, soft bodied doll with a pacifier and a bottle and purple clothes Iβm going to get one of the following and wanted to get feedback on size. She has a Melissa and Doug 12β doll and I want something bigger and Iβm not sure if 20β is too big. Thoughts?