GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts
@septca: good luck! I know you didn't want the beta but I think it will help you figure out what's happening now.
bananas / 9229 posts
@septca: Just caught up post-vacation - ahhhhh!!!! Congrats and all the coming your way!!!
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
@septca: Good luck for your beta today. I think a 2 hour hold may not have been enough to definitely say the line would be getting darker. If you see something, there is something there.
pomegranate / 3980 posts
I had a super faint frer and here I sit 14 weeks prego, it totally happens! Good luck
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
@cyndistar3: Wow. That is what my lunchtime pee stick looks like. I am super impressed that you got it to show up on camera!
pomegranate / 3658 posts
Even at 15 DPO, my wondfo tests were giving me the faintest of squint lines with the same urine that got a BFP on a digital test. I don't trust wondfo HPTs now. I don't have experience with FRERs though. FX for you!
nectarine / 2358 posts
@septca: this is what my HPTs looked like at 9dpo and they never got much darker, though OPKs became dark. I got a digital with weeks estimator that night after a FOREVER hold plus I'm naturally a terrible drinker. Currently 13w2d!
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
Update... 15 DPO. No AF yet (due today). Faint but clear positive on a cheapie this morning with FMU. BFN on FRER with SMU (threw out the FMU because I really was not expecting a + on the cheapie). Still spotting, but not as much as I usually do pre-AF. No symptoms other than bloat and sore chest (which are my usual AF symptoms).
I did not go in for the beta after all. I couldn't get out of work early enough to get there on Wednesday and then I talked it over with DH and we decided not to do it. It was just so stressful last time and I was already spotting so figured I was out. As I mentioned, I have an ultrasound appointment on Wednesday (which will be exactly 5 weeks based on O date).
My doctor called me this morning and we decided that I would just wait for AF. Regardless of whether I bleed or not, I will go in Wednesday for the ultrasound. Honestly, at this point, I am really hoping this is a CP. Because if it's an EP (my doctor's concern), I am completely screwed (I only have one good tube).
THANK YOU all again for your support and for listening to me be a crazy lady this past week. I don't know what I would do without you.
nectarine / 2079 posts
@septca: How stressful. I'm so sorry you are going through this (again). I hope that everything ends up the best it can in this situation. Much .
GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts
@septca: wow. So sorry you are feeling so stressed I'm keeping you in my thoughts.
grapefruit / 4028 posts
I am keeping you in my T&Ps, and I hope to hear good news on Wednesday.
bananas / 9229 posts
You're not a crazy lady at all!! Thinking all of the positive and stickiest of thoughts for you and hoping AF stays away... I only have one experience with betas but it is kinda stressful and doesn't prevent what might be inevitable anyways? But I'm crossing everything for you until Wednesday!!
pomegranate / 3921 posts
@septca: I REALLY, REALLY hope all is okay, lady. No matter what, we're here for you! Thoughts and prayers your way all day (and weekend, and week, and beyond).
grapefruit / 4066 posts
@septca: I'm so sorry- keeping my fingers crossed for you that this is a viable pregnancy Is there anyway you could get a US this weekend instead of waiting until Wed, if your doc is concerned about an EP?
grapefruit / 4770 posts
((hugs)) I'm so sorry you're going through this, and I really hope everything works out
GOLD / pomegranate / 3688 posts
You all will appreciate this... My husband asked me why my doctor was calling to check in on me when we had already decided to wait it out. I said that it was really nice of her (she is my endo doctor and saw us through our IF journey) and that she was probably thinking that I was super stressed because of the uncertainty. Then he said, why would you be stressed about that? There is nothing you can do to change the outcome.
Oy. Men. (My husband is a little too rational for me sometimes... )
pomegranate / 3895 posts
@septca: I sometimes just want to shake my husband and say that logic is VASTLY overrated.
Thinking about you!
honeydew / 7295 posts
@septca: oh husband!!!! She called because she knew husbands could be clueless and say things like that.
If baby is in the ute i will be praying for that baby to stick and just be a spotty little sticky bean.
If baby didn't make it to babyhood in the ute I will pray that your tube is in good shape and things can be resolved without compromising your body.
Either way lots of prayers and support for you.
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