How do I speak to my parents about not being comfortable with them drinking alcohol around my babies? Both are alcoholics and have been for many years and my lo is two, we also have a 3 month old. Mainly, we are not comfortable with them drinking when they have our 2 year old by themselves. When my husband and I are there with them it's fine. .to a point. But, if they want to keep her over night, we don't want drinking.