on a boyfriend, s.o., fiance, husband?
on a boyfriend, s.o., fiance, husband?
49 votes
pear / 1965 posts
Tech yes because I was still legally married, but in the process of a divorce. Which took TWO years. So legally yes, but I dont feel it as cheating seeing as I was waiting on paperwork and the court to be OFICIALLY rid of the dirt bag!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
No way. I believe that you should break up with someone before you go to someone else.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
No. Way. I wouldn't want someone to do it to me, so I would never do it to someone else.
grapefruit / 4187 posts
I'm looking really bad today, lol! Yes I have and I'm not proud of it. My junior year college BF was studying abroad and I met my next boyfriend while he was gone. I started seeing him without officially breaking things off with the study abroad boyfriend.
To my defense, the SA boyfriend tried to break up with me before he left and totally broke my heart. It came out of nowhere and completely shook me to the core that he could just easily toss me aside like that for a semester. So I think that's why I justified it to myself at the time, but I still am ashamed looking back!
clementine / 814 posts
I have. Not something Im proud of. No excuse for it. I am woman enough to admit that I have and am also woman enough to admit that it made me feel like the most horrible person on earth... to this day when I think back about it.. even though it was years and years ago. I pray and pray every day to never ever ever be in the same boat again.
& to clarify - I kissed someone else while in a relationship. Nothing beyond that.. but thats still horrible.
pear / 1764 posts
Technically yes, I kissed a guy while I was still dating another guy but it was an on again, off again, teenage drama-fest....not that it makes it right! I never cheated beyond that or in any serious relationships.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
No I have never, I have kissed another guy when I was "dating" someone but not exclusive and felt bad about that. I have been cheated on a couple times and could never do that to someone else. HOWEVER I have been the girl who a guy cheated with so I'm not completely innocent. Ex-boyfriend cheated on GF with me several times, still feel bad about being "that" girl.
grapefruit / 4400 posts
My husband and I broke up while I was in college and we moved on to date other people. I cheated on my new boyfriend w/ the hubs and we got back together... not a "good" reason to cheat, but it's the only time I did.
honeydew / 7968 posts
never cheated, never will. i do think i was cheated on by an ex-boyfriend. but don't know for sure.
grapefruit / 4056 posts
Yes, but not when I was with DH.
When I was with my ex we had a very volatile relationship, and I did cheat on him with someone else on a couple of occasions throughout the relationship. Honestly, I should have known when I cheated the first time, to end the relationship altogether, because we ended up torturing each other for about 2 years before finally (mercifully) calling it quits.
I have never in any other relationship felt the temptation to cheat at all, so I think it was more of a symptom of the bad relationship than anything else.
cherry / 133 posts
Yes. I was in high school and the jerk cheated on me but I had low self esteem and didn't end it... instead I returned the favor and cheated on him.... It was very immature. But it happened but I learned and moved on.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Yep, on my ex-boyfriend from college... it was a horrible on/off again roller coaster of the stereotypical unhealthy relationship. NEVER EVER on DH!
pomegranate / 3980 posts
I cheated on my last boyfriend with the man who is now my husband. I feel bad about it and I wish I would have broken up with him before anything happened but in truth I didn't even really know anything was going on until it happened.
bananas / 9227 posts
When I was with jr. high/high school bf, I kissed another guy, held hands with another, and I think my bestie tried kissing me. I sound like a skank, but that was in the span of a few years time and the "relationship" was pretty rocky. No excuse, I know, but I was young and stupid.
I learned my lesson early and have never cheated on another relationship since then. It's better to just break-up/end it then to cheat or even think about cheating.
Today | Monthly Record | |
---|---|---|
Topics | 0 | 1 |
Posts | 1 | 3 |
Ask for Help
Make a Suggestion
Frequently Asked Questions
Bee Levels
Acronyms
Most Viewed Posts
Hellobee Gold
Hellobee Recipes
Hellobee Features
Hellobee Contests
Baby-led Weaning
Bento Boxes
Breastfeeding
Newborn Essentials
Parties
Postpartum Care Essentials
Sensory Play Activities
Sleep Training
Starting Solids Gear
Transitioning to Toddler Bed
All Series
Who We Are
About the Bloggers
About the Hostesses
Contributing Bloggers
Apply to Blog
Apply to Hostess
Submit a Guest Blog
Hellobee Buttons
How We Make Money
Community Policies