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I have about a 80/20 success rate. That 20% really burned. I mean, I thought guys were supposed to be easy!

@chopsuey: yep, only once. It was the ONE AND ONLY time I ever made the first move.
It was a friend and I was doing the whole "let's be more than friends" thing, and he was like, "no, let's leave it as it is". OUCH. Never again. I really always got pursued but he was the 1 and only single guy in my life who didn't pursue me. I honestly thought he was just shy! Nope, turns out, he was NOT interested, hehe. Talk about full of myself...

I was always the one saying no to my guy friends.

I leaned in to kiss dh on our first date, and he turned his head at the last second so it was an awkward, terrible kiss somewhere between the side of his mouth and cheek, lol! Luckily he called me a couple days later anyway He's not the first guy I made the move to kiss on the first date, though I'm not sure if I ever explicitly asked a guy out, if I did it was more of a gray area, like I wasn't sure if we were friends or more, so it wasn't really clear that it was a date or just hanging out

@CupQuakeWalk: same!!

I did once and that was the very last time. I was hanging out with a group of friends, one of which was interested in me so I made a move and...that was that. Hahaha. I guess he didn't like aggressiveness. He thought I was into him for a long time afterward (I wasn't).

I remember in high school I was getting a ride somewhere with a guy friend and we got to our destination (friends house? Can't remember) and I just leaned over and full on kissed him. Luckily he was open to the idea! Nothing really came of it though which was fine. I didn't even want to date him, I just really wanted that kiss

I guess that made me feel like hot shit for a while and I got the nerve to tell my real crush of the month (lol) that I liked him. He said "Well I wouldn't mind hanging out... but not in like a crush-satisfying way". Heartache.