Can you go #1 and/or #2 in front of your S.O.?
Do you burp and fart in front of your S.O.?
Heh. I do all of the above. Life would be pretty miserable if I couldn't..
Can you go #1 and/or #2 in front of your S.O.?
Do you burp and fart in front of your S.O.?
Heh. I do all of the above. Life would be pretty miserable if I couldn't..
cherry / 153 posts
I could and feel comfortable doing all of the above around Hubs, but he does not feel comfortable with me doing so : ) Burping and peeing he doesn't mind, but he has a conniption fit about farting and #2 would be a definite no-no.
pear / 1554 posts
Burping and farting in front of my hubby is no problem, but I'm not comfortable going #1 or #2 in front of him. No matter how long we've been together, I don't think I can ever use the bathroom in front of him.
apricot / 498 posts
Burping and gas...no problem. My bathroom breaks though are my own time. I will pee with the door open but he's not in the room. #2. No thanks. Personally that's just weird.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
i never burp or fart in front of anyone.... #1 is no problem though...
grapefruit / 4049 posts
I'm with you... we do all of the above in front of each other. no shame in this house!
kiwi / 686 posts
I've never used the bathroom in front of him, nor he in front of me. But we've only been married a few months. If one of us was really sick, or needed toilet paper, I don't think it'd be an issue to walk in.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
We are comfortable enough around each other to do everything except #2. #1 sometimes happens with the door open with the other person in the next room. I think we're a close couple with appropriate boundaries.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
We're pretty comfortable with each other, but I still don't like farting or doing #2 in front of him, although I have before and he doesn't seem to care, haha. He's never done #2 in front me though, which I appreciate, haha.
honeydew / 7968 posts
well my husband is very comfy doing all those in front of me, but he's a chauvinist and thinks women shouldn't burp and fart. right now, i'm pregnant, so i'm like i don't care what you think! haha. i need this gas out!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@Tequiero21 - hahahaha, that's too funny! I'm glad you're using the pregnant excuse to do those things in front of him! Maybe he'll eventually just get used to it.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Obviously like posters above, DH is comfortable doing all of the above in front of me. I would be too, if circumstances called for it, but there are 3 bathrooms in our house and I prefer my bathroom time (esp #2) to be alone. Although, DH has made a habit out of coming to knock on the door and asking "what are you doooooing in there!" even though he knows already...
I'm not usually gas-y and hardly a burper... but I have farted a hand full of times in front of him.
honeydew / 7917 posts
I can do #1, burp, and fart in front of my husband, but I have a difficult time doing #2 in front of him. I don't mind him seeing what's in the toilet (weird, I know), but I can't have him in the room while I'm going #2. My husband is the same, except he can have me in the room for a minute or two before he kicks me out.
nectarine / 2797 posts
We don't do #2 in front of each other but everything else is fair game.
pomegranate / 3980 posts
Yes to all of the above. The poor guy has seen me at my absolute worse. I am not shy anymore.
apricot / 483 posts
i burp in front of my DH - often - but i'm not really a "farter" and i like bathroom breaks to be private - on the flip side, his only hold out is doing #2 in front of me (which i am INCREDIBLY grateful for haha), anything else is fair game
apricot / 254 posts
I can do all of the above in front of him...he gets uncomfortable if it's #2 so I keep that to myself.
grapefruit / 4400 posts
Toots-- both ways, and plentiful
Burps-- he more than me, only because I don't burp often
#1-- he doesn't feel comfortable peeing in front of me or hearing/seeing me pee. I wouldn't care either way
#2-- noooooo. I've been in the bathroom after he goes and there's no way I would want to be present for that.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
Burps: I can do this proudly in front of the hubs. Sometimes he's impressed at how well I can do this!
Toots: I NEVER farted in front of the hubs until I was pregnant and couldn't help myself. Now that baby is here, I try not to fart but it squeaks out. He thinks it's hilarious. However, he doesn't fart in front of me unless it's by accident. HAHA.
#1: He sometimes pees with the door open and I don't mind, I just think it's so lazy of him to not shut the door! I wouldn't want to pee in front of him, though.
#2: ABSOLUTELY NOT! However, I used to be VERY lactose-intolerant and once after eating ice cream, I almost went #3 (diarhea) in his car and cried and begged him to speed home before I shat myself. This has happend many times because I tend to have a weak stomach. While I've never actually went in front of him, I've, many times, nearly shat myself in his presence.
cherry / 166 posts
Burps: Fair game for both of us. I burp more often and louder than my husband. What can I say, I have 3 older brothers!
Farts: We both try not to in front of each other but sometimes they slip out.
#1-We only have 1 bathroom in our house so if I have to go bad enough while he's in the shower I will-with the shower curtain closed of course.
#2-Closed door policy for both of us.
cherry / 228 posts
haha, I do all of the above infront of my SO too! but only him and no one else lol
kiwi / 500 posts
Husband and I have no personal boundaries...we are
Too comfortable around each other. Haha
persimmon / 1341 posts
#1 only. And that's not really even in front of him. Occasionally with the door open or if one of the dogs comes in and pushes the door open. He burps and farts around me but he's pretty good about respecting my wishes for him to go in the other room.
apricot / 340 posts
i can do everything. i guess it can be kind of gross and unattractive.... but whatevvvvvvvvvvvvvvvs. i live by the philosophy that "EVERYBODY POOPS". take it or leave it!
grapefruit / 4056 posts
Burps, and farts are fair game in our house, #1 is only occasionally done with the other in the room, and #2 is always, totally private. We rarely even speak of the act being performed.
pear / 1664 posts
All of the above... though I'm not much of a burper-I 'can't'... (is that odd?). And we can talk about ANYthing.
pear / 1743 posts
I used to be "no dice" on all fronts but then I farted so loud in my sleep I woke myself (and FI) up and he couldn't stop laughing... damn lactose intolerance. We will talk about almost anything but as a preference, I prefer my time on the loo alone. Heaven knows that I'll get precious quiet time on the toilet once we have little ones LOL
apple seed / 2 posts
I was comfortable with everything except for #2 - both ways. But after I had to "flush out" my system for a colonoscopy, I was in so much pain that I didn't care that he was in the bathroom comforting me as I sat on the toilet. So now I don't care if he sees me #2, hes seen the worst of it already! But I still don't want to see HIS #2 ... gross! Though I'm sure he wouldn't mind me there
pea / 23 posts
Basically all of the above, but he's very private about #2ing in front of me. I really can't see surviving any other way - I would explode if I had to hold it in!
nectarine / 2019 posts
My whole world changed once I got pregnant. DH had only heard me burp in our 3 years together until this. I am farting up a storm. If I laugh I fart, if I sneeze I fart, if I switch sitting position on the couch I fart. It's terrible! However, he still has never seen me do anything on the toilet.
kiwi / 575 posts
Everything but no. 2. However, we only do any in cases of emergency! We still try and maintain a sense of mystery
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
I can't even have him anywhere near the bathroom if I'm going. Not just him, anyone. But I do tell him stay away, I'm going to the bathroom. And being able to tell someone I'm pooing is huge for me.
persimmon / 1202 posts
I normally have lady-like burps. Farting... slightly embarrassing, but whatever. And our cats have a habit of opening the bathroom door whenever we go in, but we both TRY to avoid using the bathroom in front of each other (we have 2 bathrooms, so it's easy to do.) He even keeps his towel on after a shower.
Weirdly, he has NO qualms about my period.
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