Husband/SO?:
Family:?
Friends?:
* Also, did you announce pregnancy first and then sex later or both at the same time with family and friends?
Husband/SO?:
Family:?
Friends?:
* Also, did you announce pregnancy first and then sex later or both at the same time with family and friends?
grapefruit / 4355 posts
DH was basically there in our master bathroom with me when I was waiting on the pregnancy test results.
For our parents, I made each of our moms a baby quilt that said "Great Moms Get Promoted to Grandmas" on the back label and wrapped it up with a couple of bibs and kids books.
For our siblings, we just called them on the phone (none of them are local to us) and told them.
For friends and other family, we'll just tell them face to face (but we aren't doing that until we're further along).
Oh - and we won't know the gender until long after we've told people (12 weeks for telling everyone, gender will be unknown until about 20 weeks).
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
Husband/SO?: "I'm pregnant!" I just blurted it out.
Family?: The first time, I gave our parents a wrapped picture frame with the u/s pic. We told them the gender on the phone later. For the second, we just had them over with Xander wearing a "Big Brother" t-shirt.
Friends?: My best friend, I just told when I saw her that I was pregnant and I e-mailed other friends.
kiwi / 633 posts
Husband/SO?: Ran, shaking, into the kitchen and pulled him down the hallway into the bathroom asking "is this two lines? DO YOU SEE TWO LINES?!"
Family:? Bought and wrapped up one of those frames with spots for every month of baby's first year. We put our first ultrasound picture in the middle with a label that said "Baby ___, arriving July 2014"
Friends?: Close friends got either a phone call or an email after we filled in both sets of parents. Everyone else found out around 14 weeks with a cute fb announcement about a new member to the 'family band' (DH is a music professor/performer and I dabble)
* Also, did you announce pregnancy first and then sex later or both at the same time with family and friends?
-I've only had one, and we announced pregnancy first and did a gender reveal with immediate family later at 20 weeks.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Husband/SO?: I had LO take the test out to him, he was in kitchen getting table set for dinner, he didn't know I was testing. He was shocked!
Family:? We told both of our parents the weekend we found out. We told our siblings later with a video of LO announcing there was a baby in mommy's tummy.
Friends?: My closest friends knew I was trying, so they figured it out right away. Everyone else found out around 12 weeks.
pomegranate / 3658 posts
DH: I just told him.
My parents: We gave them a sign that says "The Best Parents Get Promoted to Grandparents" and filmed them opening it. My mom screamed. (We gave DH's parents the same sign, but waited until later.)
DH's parents: He called them.
Our siblings, our grandparents: We called them.
Friends: At DH's birthday party, I said I was going to raise a toast to him for his birthday, and I said "To a wonderful husband, a great friend, and in about six months, a completely amazing father." Everyone freaked out. It was fantastic.
Friends who weren't at the birthday: I told them "Hey so we're having a baby" as I was able to, when I saw them. One friend came over to my house and said "How are you?" and I replied "Pregnant." That got a pretty hilarious reaction. Long-distance friends and people I just wasn't able to connect with face-to-face but I didn't want them to have to find out over Facebook, I told over google chat.
Everyone else: Facebook!
We don't know the sex yet.
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
Husband/SO?: I suspected I was pregnant when we were on vacation (DH knew), so the first thing I did when I got home was take another test & then just ran downstairs and showed the to DH!
Family:? I think we told my parents 1-2 weeks after when we visited them for dinner. Just kinda said it at the dinner table. With his parents I believe we waited till we saw a heartbeat. I think DH called his mom and we text his siblings.
Friends?: I just outright told my bff. After it was whoever asked, and then eventually made it FB official.
pear / 1580 posts
Husband: We saw the BFP together!
Family: Family knew about our IF struggles and knew in general that we were getting treatment. They don't live in town, so I just called and told them after my second beta. It couldn't have been better!
Friends: At 6w, I was visiting my bff and got to tell her in-person. After 12w, I started telling friends as I saw them. If I knew that I wouldn't see them for a while, I sent them an email. No FB post. DH and I both agree that we'd rather tell people personally.
We found out gender at 13w, and we made calls to tell family, and then we just started telling people as we saw them/communicated with them.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
DH: He was in the other bathroom when I tested at like 5am, and when he came back to bed I was sitting waiting for him, and just blurted it out. We had been trying for over a year, had recently had a miscarriage, and I was too freaked out that I was actually pregnant again (I was sure we were out that month) to plan anything cute, and I didn't want to wait to tell him.
My mom: I called that day because I was so scared I was going to miscarry again. She apparently already knew
My ILS: We told all of D's family on Christmas night. We were doing a Yankee Swap, and I had framed and wrapped a poem announcing the pregnancy and put it in the pile. My MIL ended up opening it and trying (and failing) to read it aloud (she started crying, and my SIL had to finish it ). I was 7wks.
My family: I called my side of the family after our first ultrasound at 8wks.
Friends: We called friends who would be hurt to read it on FB over the next few weeks.
Everyone else: I posted a picture of my 12wk ultrasound with the caption "(DH) is going to have a baby, and I'm pretty sure it's mine" and D posted something along the lines of "My wife has a parasite growing inside of her, but doctors predict it will exit the body naturally sometime in August" along with a screen shot from one of the Aliens movies (when the thing comes out of the guy's chest).
We were Team Green, so everyone found out the gender after he was born.
persimmon / 1316 posts
Since my family and friend knew we were doing IVF we didn't get to do a fun exciting announcement since they found out so early and wayyyy before our comfort level of celebrating.
So our gender reveal will be our fun and exciting moment we didn't really get yet.
pomelo / 5132 posts
Husband/SO?: I bought a onesie from his alma mater and woke him up to give it to him. It took him a little bit to understand!
Family:? We pretended we were taking a picture, but we were actually taking a video. Instead of saying cheese, we had everyone say "Mrs. J is pregnant!" The looks and screaming were priceless because it didn't sink in at first and we had to say, "no, really!!"
Friends?: Close friends we just told, others left to FB. (we were team green, so no reveal)
This was our announcemen (ETA the baby shoes were mine as a baby!)
clementine / 933 posts
Husband/SO?: We were trying, so I was testing early, and I said, "I think we're doing this" and handed him a test with the world's faintest blue line. He started to believe me 3 days later when I took another test
Family:? Tried to plan a brunch with DH's family after the first U/S to show them pictures of the little bean, but we couldn't get the scheduling to work, so we told them the reason we couldn't meet that early was because we had an ultrasound appointment. MIL & BIL caught on immediately...it took FIL a little longer! Then for my parents and sister, we just told them they were going to be busy in February!
Friends?: It was a little different for everyone, but we told our close friends in person/on the phone/via Facetime. Most of time we tried to just casually drop it in conversation. ("Oh, the new season of House of Cards will be out in February? You can watch it while you're on maternity leave!") It was a fun way to see people's reaction!
* Also, did you announce pregnancy first and then sex later or both at the same time with family and friends? We didn't say anything about the pregnancy on facebook until we knew the sex, and then all I did was change my profile picture to include "It's a Boy". People figured it out pretty quickly!
grapefruit / 4355 posts
@Mrs. J: I love what you did with your family! We are telling our extended family when we see everyone at Thanksgiving - I may have to steal your idea!
persimmon / 1313 posts
Husband/SO?: I waited a while and then told him.
Family:? SIL found out right after I told DH. MIL found out a few weeks later. I told my mom and family at about 15 weeks over the phone since she lives 8 hours away.
Friends?: My bff and her husband had just come back from 3 weeks in Asia when I was 13 weeks and we told them that night after we were returning keys, etc from cat-sitting. I told my four other closest friends at dinner that weekend and I still can't believe all of them cried.
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