Just like the title.

If you're paying for a sitter how often are you going out on a date night?

We're going to start using DH's cousin's daughter. She's young 20s and has worked in a daycare center for quite a few years in infant and toddler rooms. She loves kids so I'm very confident in her abilities. It's more my kids that worry me!
My 3 yr old has a bit of stranger anxiety lately. She just saw her today at a family party so I'm hoping if we get her to watch the kids for 2 hours one afternoon soon it won't be so bad.

I will be very happy if we can get out on a monthly date night where she puts the baby down! My 3 year old doesn't sleep till 9/930 so I'm totally fine putting her down when we get home.