When my husband I were dating and married I always had a good relationship with my inlaws. But that has changed so much since we had our son and it's really starting to get to me. The main issues are them not respecting the couple of "rules" I've established. We're talking rules like tell me where you take my son and if you'll be later that you originally say just text me. And silly things like them feeling like I'm around my son too much at family functions. And if he falls and cries they grab him before I can get to him and will literally run away from me and ignore me if I ask to hold him. A bunch of stuff that has compounded and put a strain on our relationship.

My husband will speak to them about these things but they never change. And then it becomes that I need to just get over it. Any suggestions here? It's become so infuriating for me that I've actually thought they might end our marriage. Help!