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How to Kindly Ask Neighbor to Smoke Somewhere Else

  1. deerylou

    pomegranate / 3003 posts

    @LazyLightning: Pregnant for no more than 72 hours, hopefully! I'm actually doing okay in that department, but should stock up on my prunes for the postpartum adventure, haha...

  2. luckypenny

    grapefruit / 4582 posts

    We had this issue but with weed! Kids smoke right below our window. DH went out and yelled at them twice. Next time I'm going and callin the cops lol

  3. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @deerylou: Not to threadjack but you really should! At 6 weeks pp I've been eating 3-5 prunes a day since leaving the hospital.

  4. deerylou

    pomegranate / 3003 posts

    @LazyLightning: And it's been helping?

  5. LazyLightning

    pear / 1664 posts

    @deerylou: Definitely. Works better than colace IMHO.

  6. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

  7. Modern Daisy

    grapefruit / 4187 posts

    I have to shamefully admit that if I were them, I wouldn't stop either. If you had asked me now that I'm older and expecting a baby myself I would absolutely be accomodating though. Up until the point when I was ready to start a family, I was really sensitive about my 'rights' being taken away by people with babies. I dont' know why and I know it was immature. But I would have thought - well if they didn't want to be near smokers they could have bought a house. Maybe that's how these girls see it, in which case your only option is to try management. Good luck, my former self and those girls are being very rude!!

  8. deerylou

    pomegranate / 3003 posts

    Just wanted to update this thread - my neighbors are being evicted at the end of the month. Several residents have been bothered by their continuous and obsessive smoking, and the neighbors in question have been extremely rude and confrontational (re: swearing) when kindly approached about it. The younger girls ended up getting in a very heated argument one evening, which prompted several neighbors to call the police. We're a "one police call, and you're out" community, so they were given the boot.

    Added bonus: the complex is taking the legal steps needed to become completely smoke free. Rejoice!

  9. Boheme

    papaya / 10473 posts

    @deerylou: Woot! That's awesome! I hope you are back to enjoying clean air shortly Good riddance!

  10. mrbee

    admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts

    @deerylou: awesome news! Ps hide your car so you don't get keyed!

  11. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    @deerylou: Whoo! Glad this is ending well for you.

  12. Dandelion

    watermelon / 14206 posts

    @deerylou: Nice!

  13. avivoca

    watermelon / 14467 posts

    @deerylou: I'm so glad this got resolved!

  14. Bookish

    GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts

    @deerylou: how lame that they caused so many issues, but I'm so glad they are leaving! Yay!

  15. swedishfish

    GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts

    Yay!

  16. LindsayInNY

    bananas / 9229 posts

    @deerylou: That's awesome!! I had the same issue with our downstairs neighbors except they were renting and we just bought. So we didn't really have any remedy - we couldn't just move out. Turns out the previous owners/tenants had complained so we were the 2nd round of complaints. After being warned to stop smoking and continuing, they were told that their lease wouldn't be renewed. They're moving out August 26 - wooh! It's a little awkward running into them in the stairway but we did nothing wrong so I don't feel totally bad. And my lungs are so grateful!

  17. Maysprout

    grapefruit / 4800 posts

    Wow, those girls sound like peaches. Glad they're moving out.

  18. pui

    bananas / 9899 posts

    Glad it's resolved! I hate cigarette smoke.

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