During labor, did you end up appreciating her? Did you actively dislike her? Were you neutral about her?

If you loved your doula, why? What things did she do that made labor that much better for you?

If you ended up not liking your doula, why? What did she do that bothered you, or not do that you wished she had done?

As a trained doula working on certifying, I've found it interesting to notice a few posts recently where people said they ended up not liking/needing their doula, and wouldn't hire one again in the future. I know every birth, pregnancy, and individual (mom and doula included) are different, but I'm just curious about what people liked and disliked!