How often do you have them come?

We have a cleaning service coming next Friday since I am throwing a shower on Saturday. DH and I were kind of fighting last night about cleaning and stuff. I am exhausted working full time, solo parenting Mon-Fri, since he gets home Friday after she is in bed. I feel like he isn't helping out enough. He wants to have them come out more cause he doesn't want me to keep feeling stressed and us fighting about him not doing enough.

But I am worried we can't afford it. Once a month is no problem, but every other week, we would have to cut back in other areas. Which we can do, we eat out too much., just not sure how willing DH is for that.