So DH and I both WOH full time. DH works many hours, he goes in later and works late ...sometimes until 9-10 pm. I work normal hours, 40 hr week and my hours are 730-4. We both commute, my commute is a tad longer. DH makes 3x's what I make.....

We both work hard and we have a pretty good set up established between who does what... I will admit I do tend to do more with/for the kids but I am ok with that (that whole mommy mental load thing)....

My vent is about how DH sometimes acts as though his job takes precedence over everything simply bc he makes a lot of money..... It drives me insane and it aggravates me.

Last night I worked until 4, commuted home, picked up DS at 450, took him to a Dr apt until 530. Waited in CVS line until 615 for meds. Picked up DD. Went home, fed both kids, put both kids to bed.......

I called DH while waiting in the CVS line just to "see" if he was on his way home and he could pick up the meds but ...
1. he didn't answer
2. he didn't respond with a text or email or anything

He ended up calling me at 620 while I was picking up DD and yelling that he was busy and had been on the phone for 45 mins.... well pardon me!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was just trying to communicate and ask a simple question, but never mind. I got this. Done and done.

He was saying he was too busy to even acknowledge my call until he had the time.. it annoys me.... me and the kids are pushed to the back burner.

Ugggghhhhh..... does anyone else deal with this? I can't be the only one....