Am I completely insane to consider this? We have been trying to move to California for about 5 years, but of course now that DD #2 is only 12 days and DD #1 is 20 months, we know an offer is coming for my husband now. Obviously the timing is horrible, but I'm afraid we won't get another chance. DH is telling me it's basically my choice. It will be a promotion, but the cost of living is so much more there and everything is just so much more complicated with two LOs!

The biggest hesitation for me is leaving my support system- my family and friends are really helpful. We would push the move back until DD #2 is at least three months, but I know it will be a logistical nightmare! Anyone considered or done something similar?