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Our baby has spina bifida

  1. ustechie

    apricot / 358 posts

    @winniebee: I'm so terribly sorry you're going through this. Wishing you strength and peace for your entire family.

  2. MrsB2012

    nectarine / 2466 posts

    I am so terribly sorry for everything that you've had to go through.

  3. Silva

    cantaloupe / 6017 posts

    @winniebee: I'm so sorry. Wishing you and your family peace and healing.

  4. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @winniebee: Oh honey... I'm just so devastated for you and your family. I know how much you wanted and loved this baby and how hard you tried to have him. I just can't believe how unfair the universe can be sometimes. So much love to you and your family during this difficult time.

  5. auggiefrog

    kiwi / 631 posts

    I am so incredibly sorry to read your update. Take care.

  6. pastemoo

    cantaloupe / 6146 posts

    Praying for a speedy and calm delivery, and for peace and comfort. You are surrounded by love in this time of grief.
    I am so sorry.

  7. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    I was so hoping you would get better news. I cannot imagine the pain in reaching the decision you have had to, but you are an incredible and selfless mother. I pray that your induction would be as speedy as possible and you will be able to have some sweet moments with your son to last a lifetime. Please know we are all here for you, thinking of you and are hearts are with you.

  8. skipra

    pomegranate / 3350 posts

    @winniebee: i am so very sorry. It is brave of you to take the pain and suffering so he will not have to.

  9. abmamma

    kiwi / 641 posts

    My heart breaks for you and your family. I'm so very sorry.

  10. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Im so sorry. Here's a resource if you need it. http://www.sophiesvoicefoundation.org

  11. catomd00

    grapefruit / 4418 posts

    I'm so sorry.

  12. Mrs. Sunshine

    hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts

    I am so sorry. I'm crying deep tears for you and your family.

  13. JenGirl

    clementine / 756 posts

    I'm so, so sorry! I can do nothing more than offer support and know that I'll be holding your whole family in the light. I'm glad you were able to come to a decision and get an induction. I hope that the induction goes smoothly. I'll be thinking of you on Wed.

  14. imbali

    apricot / 347 posts

    I'm sure you have a ton of support and I know there are bees who have already reached out, but just to say I'm so so sorry. We terminated at 19.5 weeks, also gave birth and it is tge hardest decision ever to have to make and live through. Wall me if I can help xx sending love and light to you and yours

  15. MrsScallop

    persimmon / 1328 posts

    I am so very sorry. I know how much your son is loved and that you are an amazing mother who only wants the best for her baby. I will be sending you healing thoughts

  16. serenity207

    cherry / 164 posts

    I'm so terribly sorry. I pray for strength and peace during this heartbreaking time.

  17. whenoceansrise

    nectarine / 2053 posts

    I don't even know what to say. My heart hurts so much for you. I'm so very sorry

  18. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    @winniebee: I am so incredibly sorry

  19. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    Words feel so inadequate at a time like this. Praying for strength and peace during this incredibly difficult time.

  20. littlecasita1122

    persimmon / 1026 posts

    @winniebee I'm so so sorry you are going through this. There are no words. I lost my baby girl in January at 23 weeks - please don't hesitate to reach out if you have questions about the induction process and what to expect. I'm hoping you have an amazing medical team that gets you through.

  21. Charm54

    cantaloupe / 6885 posts

  22. AngelicOne

    persimmon / 1050 posts

    Thinking of you!

  23. MenagerieMama

    pear / 1547 posts

    I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts

  24. pregnantbee

    grapefruit / 4717 posts

    I'm so so sorry this is happening. You've been in my thoughts. Wishing you peace and strength during this difficult time.

  25. MOMTOLITTLEB

    persimmon / 1188 posts

    I'm so so sorry. Can't imagine the pain you are in. You and your entire family will be remembered in my prayers.

  26. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    I am so so sorry. I've been thinking about your family all day. I hope Wednesday goes as smooth as possible for you

  27. kiddosc

    grapefruit / 4278 posts

    I'm so heartbroken for your family. I think you are so brave for making this decision.

  28. yerpie110

    nectarine / 2771 posts

  29. lovehoneybee

    GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts

    Absolutely unfair, devastating news. Praying for so much strength and peace for you and your family.

  30. mrsrain

    nectarine / 2115 posts

    Praying for you all during this heartbreaking ordeal.

  31. yin

    honeydew / 7917 posts

    You and your family are in my thoughts. We, as a community, are here to support you through this difficult time. *hugs* You are so strong.

  32. Tanjowen

    nectarine / 2521 posts

    I am so sorry. No mother should have to endure this kind of pain.Praying for peace and strength for you this week.

  33. knittylady

    pomegranate / 3212 posts

    There are no words. I'm so so sorry. I know how much you loved and wanted him. Prayers and thoughts to you and your family.

  34. noelani

    olive / 58 posts

    My heart is breaking for you and your family. We also went through TFMR last year at 23 weeks, and also chose labor and delivery for our baby boy who was very much wanted and loved. Please let me know if you would like to talk or if you would like me to send some resources that we found helpful through such a painful experience. A dear childhood friend received a similar diagnosis of severe spina bifida in her current pregnancy and will also be terminating this week. You will both be in my thoughts, and much, much love to you and your families.

  35. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    thinking of you I am so, so sorry

  36. Freckles

    honeydew / 7444 posts

    I am so incredibly sorry. I have been thinking about you and your family. You are so brave, and i wish you peace and strength during this difficult time.

  37. sera_87

    pomegranate / 3604 posts

    I am so so sorry. Thinking of you in the days ahead. 💙

  38. Caly

    nectarine / 2765 posts

    I am so incredibly sorry to hear your update. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  39. ALV91711

    pomelo / 5621 posts

    Thinking of you and your family

  40. QBbride

    pomegranate / 3192 posts

    I'm so sorry

    Have you heard of the organization Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep? They are professional photographers who volunteer their time to take photos of babies and families when they are going through a loss. The photos are absolutely amazing and the photographers are so respectful. If you are interested, please contact them.

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