hi ladies, i'm 5 weeks pregnant today and i have this pain/cramp right in the middle of my bikini line area where the leg attaches to the pelvis

first of all, i'm sorry for the topic of ectopics - i know its a sensitive topic for some.

i would sometimes get these pains before AF, and right before i got a BFP i felt this pain but then it went away all of last week, and now its back. i had lots of lower abdominal cramps when i was pregnant with DS but nothing in the pelvic area, or at least i cant' remember having pain there

im so worried that if it could be ectopic.

the earliest the OB could fit me in is Fri 9/4. but i didn't call about the pain yet. its not that painful taht i can't lay down on it or walk or anything. im functioning just fine - but i do think i have quite a high pain threshold though. i searched ectopic on here, and googled it, but mostly everything just said lower abdominal pain, but this is not really abdominal or side pain.

if it means anything, ive been testing every day and the lines are getting darker and darker - does it still get darker with ectopics?

and when do women usually find out if they do have ectopics?

what do ya'll think? thanks.