Since we got home last Friday with DD2, DD1 has only sought me out once (she crawled on my lap because she wanted to watch Mickey Mouse clubhouse). Otherwise she hasn't voluntarily let me read to her, hug her, hasn't come to me, etc. I've tried engaging her while she plays. I feel like I've tried everything. I am recovering from a c-section and she is a big 18 month old so I can't really pick her up much.

Today I tried to put a clip in her hair to keep her bangs out of her eyes and she practically screamed for my mom.

I knew it was probably going to be a rough transition bringing DD2 home but the only thing that seems to be changed is that she won't come anywhere near me and is more clingy with her dad and nana.

Please tell me this will change. I feel like a failure as a parent