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So this is what divorce looks like

  1. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    my heart goes out to you.

  2. Mrs. J

    pomelo / 5132 posts

  3. PrincessBaby

    cantaloupe / 6610 posts

    I am so sorry

  4. lawbee11

    GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts

    So sorry. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way

  5. Caly

    nectarine / 2765 posts

    I am so sorry *hugs*

  6. Mrs. Lovejoy

    clementine / 972 posts

    wow, so incredibly beautifully written, and deeply heart-wrenching. You have a gift in maneuvering life in a completely unselfish and gracious way. We can all learn from how you are protecting him, and yet your own heart along this entire journey.

  7. smith

    cherry / 154 posts

    I've been here - it's the saddest I've ever been, and I truly thought I would never find happiness again. I won't get into the whole "It gets better!" and "You'll be glad again soon!" stuff - I hated hearing all of that when I was mourning my marriage - but I will say to let people help you. Let friends come over, even if you're not in the mood to be around people, and let the people you're close to know how you're feeling.

    It was helpful for me and a few of my other divorced friends to disconnect from social media and, as painful as it felt at first, cut ties with some people who made me think of my ex and the pain he caused me. Some people might take sides, and as hard as it will be, try to not get offended.

    Thinking about you, lady! Best of luck. Lots of people rooting for you right now

  8. MrsF

    honeydew / 7283 posts

  9. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    I am so sorry! I hope that time brings you some comfort.

  10. Mama Bird

    pomegranate / 3127 posts

    I'm really sorry

  11. Katrocap

    persimmon / 1230 posts

    Love and good thoughts being sent your way. I'm amazed by the amount of love you have in your heart (for yourself, for him, for the world) to be able to write such a moving and thoughtful piece while you are in such pain.

  12. 78h2o

    grapefruit / 4441 posts

    Such a beautiful post. I'm so sorry you are hurting. Sending you lots of hugs.

  13. Ginabean3

    pomegranate / 3401 posts

    Thinking of you!

  14. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

  15. MrsStar

    nectarine / 2994 posts

    Thinking of you

  16. MapleMoose

    grapefruit / 4213 posts

    I am so sorry you have to experience this. What a terribly difficult situation.

  17. MrsMccarthy

    honeydew / 7295 posts

    I'm so sorry. I hope it's for the best and you both can be friends someday. Very brave of you to share and I'm sure it will help many who are on the brink or going trough similar pain.

  18. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    this was beautifully poignant, but heartbreaking. Thank you so much for letting us in on this journey of yours. You are always in my thoughts. I'm so, so sorry.

  19. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

  20. lavender

    grapefruit / 4554 posts

  21. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    I'm so sorry.

  22. MrsBrewer

    coconut / 8854 posts

  23. knittylady

    pomegranate / 3212 posts

    I am so so sorry. I know you both tried so hard and live each other very much. This was so beautifully written and I have no doubt it will touch someone else going though this someday. Be good to yourself.

  24. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    I am so sorry

  25. littlejoy

    pomegranate / 3375 posts

    You are so strong. I hope for healing and growth for both of you.

  26. sandy

    cantaloupe / 6687 posts

  27. MrsH

    honeydew / 7667 posts

    Big hugs.

  28. Tanjowen

    nectarine / 2521 posts

    I'm so sorry. Lots of

  29. photojane

    cantaloupe / 6164 posts

    I am so sorry. I wish I had something to say to ease your pain. I'm thinking of you and sending my love!

  30. Mrs. Tiger

    blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts

    So sorry you're going through this, it can't be easy. I wish both of you happier times ahead.

  31. ALV91711

    pomelo / 5621 posts

    Sending lots of love your way

  32. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    Thinking of you

  33. mrscobee

    clementine / 903 posts

    This is heartbreaking. Hugs to you.

  34. sheskrafty

    persimmon / 1165 posts

  35. lizzywiz

    persimmon / 1178 posts

    Your writing brilliantly captured the feeling of 'bittersweet'
    I found the book ' how to survive the loss of a love' (short essays and poems about lost love) comforting when I had to say goodbye to someone I loved.
    Loving someone and knowing it isn't enough is the worst.

  36. simplyfelicity

    cantaloupe / 6634 posts

    Thank you for sharing this with us. I am so sorry.

  37. mrskc

    bananas / 9357 posts

    Big hugs. I'm so sorry. Sending you much love.

  38. GoGoSnoGirl

    pear / 1558 posts

    My heart goes out to you. This was so beautifully written, & hopefully was therapeutic for you.

  39. BoogieBea

    pomegranate / 3503 posts

    That was beautifully written. I am so sadden for you. I hope you both find the strength to move on and find happiness again!

  40. lemondrop

    bananas / 9118 posts

    So much love for you my friend- you have my number, use it when you need a pick me up or a virtual hug

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