We leave Seoul tonight for NYC and of course it's a long and brutal flight. I'm worried about J getting ear pain during takeoff. My plan was to give him a bottle but he likes (needs?) to lay down for drinking it and I'm figuring they're not going to let him lay across my lap while we're taking off.

Any other suggestions for avoiding ear pain for toddlers? He doesn't eat solids really so candy/chewing won't work.