My family always does Thanksgiving at 1pm, but I prefer the way DH's family does it, at 5 or 6pm, with snacks or appetizers all afternoon and fun games to play.

So i end up eating turkey twice on Thanksgiving, because I can't just eat a big lunch and then skip dinner! And I miss the appetizers!

This year, we're traveling to my parents' house and I wish we were having Thanksgiving dinner!