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  1. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    I was waiting to update this thread until I was feeling more confident but then there was another twist today.

    I got another bfp about a month ago. Today I went in for a 7w6d scan... and we saw two heartbeats.

    My husband and I are now trying to figure out how we are going to rearrange our lives

  2. lioneyes

    persimmon / 1286 posts

    that's AMAZING NEWS! crazy for sure, but amazing! CONGRATS!

  3. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    @ElbieKay: congrats!!

  4. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    Wow!!! Congratulations x 2!!!

  5. MamaCate

    pomegranate / 3595 posts

    @ElbieKay: congrats! I just read back through your whole thread to refresh my memory—what a year for you! I will be praying for you and your whole family! ♥♥♥

  6. CatchAFallingStar

    nectarine / 2806 posts

    How wonderful! Congratulations!!

  7. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    Wow! Congrats! 🎉 That’s super exciting! Were y’all doing clomid again or was it a total fluke?

  8. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @ElbieKay: OMG! Congratulations!!!

  9. periwinklebee

    grapefruit / 4466 posts

    Congrats - such amazing news!!!!!

  10. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    @lioneyes: @jhd: @LCTBQE: @MamaCate: @CatchAFallingStar: @travellingbee: @Adira: @periwinklebee: Thanks everyone! Fingers crossed that this goes smoothly. My RE suspects they are mono di (shared placenta with separate sacs) but we are going for a high res scan today to hopefully confirm.

    @travellingbee: It was our fifth round of clomid and our third IUI. We had actually switched insurance effective 1/1 because my husband's plan covers one round of IVF so that was going to be our last attempt before throwing in the towel.

  11. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    @ElbieKay: wow that’s awesome. We also got pregnant the cycle right before starting IVF. We were waiting for CD1 to start our protocol and lo and behold it didn’t come! It was a clomid/trigger cycle without iui.

  12. PeaceLily

    apricot / 360 posts

    @ElbieKay: Congrats! How exciting! I love hearing IUI success stories.

  13. agold

    grapefruit / 4045 posts

    @ElbieKay: Congratulations! And that means the twins are almost certain to be identical, right? How exciting!!

  14. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    @agold: Yes, I went for a followup high res scan and they confirmed that they are mono di and identical.

    @travellingbee: It's ironic bc my insurance has much better maternity coverage but doesn't cover IVF. So now our medical costs for this pregnancy will be much higher, but still lower than IVF would have cost. And assuming this pregnancy is sticky, this means I won't have to go through with IVF.

    @PeaceLily: Thank you! It's still early and now it's a high risk pregnancy, but hopefully this will finally be a success story

  15. Mrs. Lemon-Lime

    wonderful pea / 17279 posts

    Super exciting news! Congrats!!

  16. dc yoga bee

    grapefruit / 4770 posts

    Congrats!

  17. FoolsintheRain

    olive / 63 posts

    @ElbieKay: whoa just read through this thread
    What an exciting outcome! How are things going now?

  18. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    @FoolsintheRain: Well, I am 15w3d today. So far everything looks good, and we learned about a month ago that they are girls. (I would have been happy either way but was a little excited for girls simply because my older child is a boy.)

    I am almost done with a month-long break from dr appts. This coming week the every-other-week monitoring will begin.

    We also put a deposit down with a contractor to convert our L-shaped living room to a third bedroom.

    So now we are just hoping for a smooth pregnancy and uneventful delivery.

  19. FoolsintheRain

    olive / 63 posts

    @ElbieKay: great update! Glad everything is going well!

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    clementine / 950 posts


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  21. pachamama

    nectarine / 2436 posts

    @ElbieKay: I was so happy tk head these updates. How are things?

  22. Kaohinani

    grapefruit / 4144 posts

    @ElbieKay: Congratulations! 🎇🎈🎉🎊. So exciting!

  23. turquoisemama

    persimmon / 1481 posts

    @ElbieKay: Love this thread!

  24. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    @pachamama: Well today I am 25w3d! I have ultrasounds every two weeks and so far everything looks good. I am trying to take things week by week and have a few interim NICU-related milestones in my head: 28w, 32w, 34w. The girls have to be born no later than 37w0d due to their shared placenta.

    We are almost done with our construction project to add a third bedroom. After that we can finish rearranging the furniture and getting our apartment organized. Most of the baby clothes are sorted and ready to be washed and folded and put in drawers. We now own a 3-row SUV. And my work transition plan is solidly underway. My goal is to have everything in place before my third tri begins in 2.5 weeks. Everyone says that third tri with twins is really challenging so I don't want to plan on being productive in case I'm not.

    @Kaohinani: @turquoisemama: Thank you!

  25. turquoisemama

    persimmon / 1481 posts

    @ElbieKay: Awesome! I’m sure the third trimester is going to be taxing but hopefully you can keep those little ones cooking as long as possible!

  26. pachamama

    nectarine / 2436 posts

    @ElbieKay: I am so so happy for you!! Sounds like things are coming together. I loved the baby prep period Tell me about this 37 week thing, does it have to be a c-section? I don't know about shared placentas.

  27. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    @pachamama: All fraternal twins and 1/3 of identical twins grow separate placentas. This is called dichorionic. 2/3 of identical twins share a placenta (monochorionic). My understanding is that it depends on how many days past fertilization the zygote split occurs. If it happens early enough then they can develop their own. It is also possible for two placentas to fuse but we are pretty sure based on ultrasounds that mine are monochorionic.

    A shared placenta has earlier risk of degrading which translates to increased stillbirth risk. That is the reason for the 37-week cutoff. It also introduces risk that one twin may steal resources from the other which is a serious complication for both the donor and the recipient. The conditions are called TTTS and TAPS. There's about a 10-15% chance of a monochorionic pregnancy developing TTTS, so protocol is monitoring ultrasounds every two weeks. (I think protocol for dichorionic monitoring is every four weeks, but I'm not sure since I don't have that kind of pregnancy.)

    With twins in general (regardless of chorionicity) you can attempt vaginal delivery if both are head down. Some providers will attempt vaginal delivery as long as the first twin ("Twin A") is head down. It is almost impossible to find a provider in the US who will attempt vaginal delivery if Twin A is breech, though I have heard of one in LA.

    I looked hard to find an OB who is comfortable with the second condition and am really hoping that Baby A keeps her head down! It is common to find one doctor in a practice who will do this, but then you are subject to the call schedule. So unfortunately my OB search took a lot of effort this time. I think the OB who attended my son's birth would have done it too, but she retired.

    About 1% of monochorionic twins also share a amniotic sac. This is called monoamniotic (versus the more common diamniotic). Unfortunately those babies have about a 50-60% survival rate, mom is often on extended bedrest during the pregnancy, and a csection is pretty much mandated. I think this is primarily due to the fact that the umbilical cords can get severely knotted up since they are in the same sac. I haven't researched it too much since thankfully my pregnancy is mono-di, not mono-mono.

    Wow that got long! #twinnerd

  28. ElbieKay

    pomegranate / 3231 posts

    Well after everything I shared on this thread, I am thrilled to share that Juliet and Amelia were born on Saturday. We had a smooth delivery and are expecting to be discharged today. I am thrilled and relieved that we have had a c-section- and NICU-free delivery!

  29. Lahela017

    kiwi / 583 posts

    Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you and your family!

  30. bhbee

    cantaloupe / 6086 posts

    Congrats!!!

  31. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @ElbieKay: Congratulations!!!

  32. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @ElbieKay: congratulations!!! Wonderful news!

  33. periwinklebee

    grapefruit / 4466 posts

    Congrats - so happy for you and your family!!!!!

  34. MamaBear87

    nectarine / 2288 posts

    Congrats!! Stop glad your delivery went well and your girls are here!

  35. MrsDynamiteGal

    cherry / 119 posts

    That's so wonderful! Congratulations! Happy for you!

  36. Iced Tea

    persimmon / 1310 posts

    @ElbieKay: Congrats on the babies and smooth experience! That’s so amazing! Really, really happy for you!

  37. pachamama

    nectarine / 2436 posts

    @ElbieKay: I am so glad to hear this!! Makes my heart swell after all you had been through that you have 2 healthy baby girls and good memories of their birth. All the love to you and your family. xoxo

  38. Pumuckl

    pomegranate / 3601 posts

    Congratulations from a fellow twin mama - enjoy the double snuggles

  39. DesertDreams88

    grapefruit / 4361 posts

    Yay! I've been thinking about you and wishing you the best!

  40. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    Just seeing this thread for the first time today. Congratulations! What an amazing journey. How did your construction project turn out?

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