Do you have the best birthday cupcake recipe ever that you don't mind to share? Preferrably "healthy" -- as in, with limited butter and white sugar, or better yet, has healthy substitions? ?

I have the BEST almond flour zucchini chocolate bread/cake recipe that I can make into cupcakes/muffins, but obviously that is not nut-free. I have another oat flour one that I make all the time, but then I kinda don't want to make birthday "muffins" you know!

I never bake cupcakes because I don't want to make a bunch of goodies with tons of butter, cream and sugar, and I know I would stuff my face with it too. So I don't have much experience in that. Do you have anything you can share? We can even do a carrot cake. Please let me know