Hi all. I am/was 6w2d pregnant and I am pretty sure I am miscarrying. Ultrasound on Monday showed no yolk sac or fetal pole, ob/gyn's estimate was 5w, I started spotting brown today and then it seemed like a light period (I always have light periods). Had another US today and no growth, in fact, they changed the estimate to 4w6d. They weren't optimistic. I'm waiting on my HCG numbers tomorrow.

My question is, what should I ask the doctor about for future pregnancies? Like, I'm going to ask them if they think I had a blighted ovum, how long should we wait until TTC again, etc. But I want to know what I should "ask" for in regards to the next pregnancy - like, betas right away? Vaginal US at 5 weeks, 6 weeks? A prescription for progesterone? I just want more monitoring and support next time and with this obgyn I need to be my own advocate, but I'm not sure what to ask for / what is too much?

If you've had a loss and then another pregnancy, how did your ob/gyn handle the 2nd pregnancy?