What are your LO's ages and their respective bedtimes? What is your dinner time? What time do they wake up, do they wake naturally or do you have to wake them in the morning? Any specific challenges?

Mine is 4.5 and our bedtime is at 8:30 supposedly.... but he stalls bedtime a lot, reading books and he could stay up until 9, 9:30, and even 10 and beyond some days. I do have to get him up at 6:45am and most usually I have to wake him up.

I talked to several moms and surprised to find out people are having very early bedtimes at 7:30pm... and they were like oh we have to move bedtimes up (!). I have been really trying and hoping to move bedtime up, but he just won't go to sleep, especially on school days when he still naps at school! I also hate to have that mad dash between 6-8 when I have to hush him to eat dinner, straighten up the kitchen a bit, and bathtime, clean up, read....etc. How do other moms do it so quickly??