Sleep for us!
Sleep for us!
124 votes
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
Sleep but once we sleep trained at 6 months, it hasn't been bad.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
So far, feeding. T has had a billion different sleep patterns, but his MOTN wake ups aren't a big deal. He sleeps in his own room and crib most of the night and with me after he wakes up the first time. I can side lie and nurse him and go back to sleep. No biggie. I feel rested
We struggled with BFing in the beginning and still aren't perfect. I had to start solids earlier than I had hoped.
No behavior issues yet but he's only 6 months.
pomegranate / 3863 posts
Sleep, for sure, hands down, no question. Finally STTN (most of the time, maybe 85%) at nearly 20 months....
Remind me again why I would want to put myself through sleep hell all over again for a future LO?!
pomegranate / 3791 posts
Sleep training worked really quickly for us and L will eat anything, so for us it would be behavior/discipline.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
Xander's only 17 months, but I'm going to go with feeding. Breastfeeding was fine, but getting him interested in solids was rough and then moving onto finger foods was another stress!
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
@looch: Agree. Right now, behavior (tantrums, biting, etc) are toughest. For a long time, sleep would have been my answer. For the first 4 months, feeding would be my answer.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@petunia354: Seriously. I am forever scarred.
@Adira: Pretty sad that we have the same feeding issues as you and sleep is still more difficult, eh??
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
@lawbee11: Um, yes, I feel bad... Xander was always a good sleeper, so we've been lucky! Although he's also allergic to dairy, so there's that!
grapefruit / 4903 posts
This changed by age for us. After a few weeks, feeding really wasn't a problem. Sleep was horrific until she finally settled into STTN and a nap schedule. Now that's in the past, and we're working through setting limits and testing boundaries.
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@Adira: Oooh yeah the dairy allergy is tough, I'm sure. We night-weaned over the weekend and the past 2 nights she STTN so fingers crossed that it's not just a fluke!
pomelo / 5469 posts
Out of those, feeding. I would say adjusting to being a parent in general/a SAHM have been the hardest things.
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
Oh man, 0-3 months, it was feeding. 3-6 months, it was sleep. Now it's probably behavior...I just don't know how to mitigate her frustrations/tantrums. They seem to just go from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds and I wish I knew what was bothering her!
grapefruit / 4066 posts
hmmm tough question. Sleep was definately the biggest struggle for a LONG time, but as of right now at 21 months, behavior is probably the most difficult (tantrums, biting, hiting...ahh the joys of toddlerhood)
honeydew / 7091 posts
Behavior/Discipline for sure. She's not particularly difficult, but just figuring out how to properly handle tantrums/fits etc without ruining her (spoiling vs traumatizing )
pomelo / 5524 posts
@looch: Agreed.
We're in the toddler discipline stage and it's tough. It's also extremely unhelpful when someone tells me that they've never had these kinds of issues and it must be something I'm doing or that he's feeding off of my negativity. Makes me ragey.
coconut / 8430 posts
Feeding feeding feeding.
This kid just doesn't like to eat and I'm trying not to make it a big deal, but I think I am
watermelon / 14467 posts
Right now it's feeding, just because I'm barely making enough milk to cover her bottles at daycare.
nectarine / 2180 posts
Agree with @looch. Discipline/behavior has been particularly difficult now that our daughter is 3.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
Sleep, we just night weaned and we've been getting 10 hour stretches for the first time in 11 months but that's it 10 hours and he's up.
grapefruit / 4663 posts
@lawbee11: night-weaning made the difference for us, well it's been a week lol
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
@jetsa: So what time does he wake up for the day?? M would be so crabby on 10 hours of sleep....girl loves her sleep, she just has trouble staying asleep without nursing!
pomegranate / 3331 posts
I had a really hard time voting, because her feeding issues have caused her sleep problems, but the sleep problems bother me more than the feeding problems, so... i voted for sleep only because i'm so tired these days, but the feeding problems have actually been far more problematic for us. plus the feeding is getting better and the sleep is getting worse, so i suspect if i vote again in a month, sleep will have been the right answer (hello 9 month regression!)
grapefruit / 4663 posts
@lawbee11: 5:30, if I put him down before 7 he loses it so we normally start his bedtime routine at 7 he's in the crib lights out by 7:30. He's had a 2 nights where he wanted to play at 4 we were up for an hour and then he slept for another. I think he just has low sleep needs. He only gets 12-13 hours total a day and is happy unless he's hungry or tired.
We tried scooting it back because 5:30 is early on the weekends and no matter what time I put him down he's up between 5:30-6
coconut / 8861 posts
Tantrums and feeding. Our feeding problem is getting him to eat his meals at the booster seat, not while watching Daniel Tiger.
honeydew / 7230 posts
At 3.5 months, feeding. Sleeping isn't great, but better than I feared!
grapefruit / 4291 posts
@jetsa: my LO is 22 months but ten hours is STTN for her and she maxes out at 12-13 hours of sleep per day. LO actually gets more night sleep when she wakes and we then nurse and cosleep!
@looch: yup, bf'ing in the very early days, sleep at around 6-7 months and now it's toddler behaviour (or rather, my behaviour when reacting!)
@Danizaur: I've been part time bedsharing with Miss A for over twelve months and it's worked really well for us
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Right now it is tantrums/behavior. She has been having spouts of extreme naughtiness right now, making it very hard on this very tired mom in her first trimester.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
@looch: Agreed. Right now we're having food issues, but behavior/discipline is a close second...he's testing his/our boundaries...and we've gone through sleep issues, although those are pretty good right now.
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