I think there are a lot of us ladies who are "maybe possibly going to be TTC in the future but not yet." Am I right? Do you feel like a poser? I keep trying to curb my desire to answer all the expecting/new moms' questions with things like "well if I *WAS* a mom, I would ________." Although I do have inklings of what I'd probably do based on who I am, I am quite sure--having had several friends with kids--that you really don't know a lot of things you'll do until you *have* that experience. And thus, I feel kinda like a poser in this very mommy community.

That said, I absolutely feel lucky to be included here, where I can learn so much from others who are there/have been there, and when it's "my turn," it's great to have all of the moms' knowledge available to me as well as a great community here!