I've noticed since I've been pregnant, people ask us when we'll have another baby or how many we want total. I've also noticed that friends who have chosen to have only one child, or can't have another, get a lot of comments. One of my friends can't have any more children but she doesn't want to broadcast it, so when people ask her she just says "Oh, we'll see." or "Oh, I think we're good with just one." and people always start in on her telling her she's selfish, or that she'll change her mind. She says its rare that people just accept her answer that they're having one child and leave the subject alone.

If you have an only child, have you experienced this? How did you handle it?