Let me start off by saying I really like our nanny. We don't have many issues with her - she has called out sick a bunch of times, but otherwise, we're cool. She works for us 3.5 days a week (35 hours) and this summer agreed to watch her old nanny kid on Fridays. Totally fine, it's her time off, not my business. She has our carseats installed in her car and yesterday she mentioned how the other girl loves riding in DS1's carseat. This bothers me. She didn't ask if it was ok for another kid to ride in DS1's carseat. If she had asked, I would have said sure no problem. But the fact that she didn't ask rubs me the wrong way. I didn't say anything in the moment.

Would this bother you? Would you say anything?