https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 04 Apr 2026 14:20:57 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901980 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 14:56:57 +0000 cake2017 2901980@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LadyDi: Okay! Ours is small but I can see her move and can hear also. I do t know maybe i’m just being paranoid. I’ve done this before with Lo1 I don’t know why I am hesitating- maybe because we waited at 6 months for the first. However, i just feel like she will do better in her room. Anyway! Thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901978 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 14:48:36 +0000 LadyDi 2901978@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@cake2017: We have an older video motorola. It's fine, terrible battery life. I have loud white noise in all of my kids' rooms and I have never had trouble hearing them on the monitor....but I can hear the white noise too. I am used to it by now but it's kind of annoying. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901974 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 14:07:16 +0000 cake2017 2901974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSRS: Hi! Thank you for the link!@LadyDi: I am thinking about moving her in her room in the crib at night when we get back from vacation. She naps in there just fine. Can I ask what baby monitor you use and if you can hear very clear with a loud sound machine going? We have one but I’m thinking about getting another one.@ALV91711: Thanks- it seems to depend how the day goes. She does 5 usually. Then I start to worry if she’s eating enough </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901966 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 10:10:43 +0000 LadyDi 2901966@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think this sounds very normal. DS3 is 4.5 months and he just started to get on a more predictable schedule and stretch out the time between feedings. Most of his naps are only 20-30 minutes and he’ll have one longer one in the middle of the day. I sleep a lot better when I move the baby to his own crib/room but that’s a personal decision based on what you’re comfortable with. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901964 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 10:02:47 +0000 ALV91711 2901964@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I’d say that’s pretty normal for 3 months. DS2 has 4-5 naps until around 7 months old. It was tiring especially with an older one to take care of. </p> <p>She will start to go longer stretches between feeds and longeger/fewer naps soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901955 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 08:14:17 +0000 MrsSRS 2901955@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is a normal schedule. If she's having good wet and poopy diapers then she's getting plenty of food. That's a normal amount of time between nursing sessions. It will lengthen, and her naps will consolidate into fewer, longer ones, but probably not for another month or two. Here's a sample schedule, and look, the feeds are only two hours apart. <a href="https://www.babysleepsite.com/schedules/3-month-old-baby-sleep-and-feeding-schedule/" rel="nofollow">https://www.babysleepsite.com/schedules/3-month-old-baby-sleep-and-feeding-schedule/</a></p> <p>You're doing great! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/three-month-old-bf-schedule#post-2901952 Sun, 10 Nov 2019 06:09:40 +0000 cake2017 2901952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hello! </p> <p>I feel like I’m all over the place. </p> <p>LO wakes with us at 630am because she’s in our room and toddler awakes same time so i’m going in to get him. She seems to eat every two hours- eat, play sleep. I’m watching wake windows so she stays up for 1.15 before each nap. She’s ready for bed around 630-8pm. She will wake to eat( becomes restless around 1030-11pm). She will continue to wake every 2-3 hours in the night. Last wake will be 530am and i hold her for the hour. Naps are about 4-5 a day mostly 5. They are 30-45 mins. Last week the first nap was 1-1.5 hours now it’s shorter. </p> <p>Questions- How do i know she’s getting enough?<br /> Is she waking because she’s not eating enough?<br /> What should the naps look like?<br /> Any sample schedules with the awake time at 630am would be helpful please?<br /> Should i relocate her to her crib in her room for nights? ( battling this because i’m anxious and worried what the aap says even though my doctor says it’s fine for baby).</p> <p>How do i feed and follow eat play sleep if her naps are so short? </p> <p>Sorry for all the questions! Thank you </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2898189 Mon, 30 Sep 2019 21:40:53 +0000 ALV91711 2898189@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Beebeeholiday: I wish we could sleep that late in the morning, we leave about 7:15. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2898115 Mon, 30 Sep 2019 11:35:03 +0000 Beebeeholiday 2898115@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My kindergartener and 2nd grader both go to bed at 8. They wake up at 7:15. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2898017 Fri, 27 Sep 2019 21:35:22 +0000 ALV91711 2898017@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@shabang: it is so crazy &amp; hectic. I’m sure as they get older and they can do more for themselves it will get a little less crazy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2897878 Thu, 26 Sep 2019 08:30:13 +0000 shabang 2897878@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah, we both fall asleep with the kids (me with the baby, him with the 3yo/6yo). Just can't seem to make the weekday evenings anything but a mad rush! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2897849 Wed, 25 Sep 2019 20:01:13 +0000 ALV91711 2897849@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anagram: The first week DS woke up early every day, probably because he was excited. Now I have to wake him most days at 6:30. He’s in bed about 7:30 and most nights asleep right away. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2897847 Wed, 25 Sep 2019 19:45:05 +0000 Anagram 2897847@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My kids adjusted right back into school schedule. They are in bed by 7:50 and usually totally asleep by 8. Tonight I had to work really late (I'm still here actually--UGH) and I called around 7:45 to say goodnight and my husband said they were already asleep!</p> <p>My 4 year old is still waking around 6-6:10 each morning. The 6 year old sleeps till around 6:30-6:40. They both have really busy schedules this year, so I think they are tuckered out between school, and dance/soccer/gymnastics/theater/chess after school. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2897843 Wed, 25 Sep 2019 19:25:56 +0000 ALV91711 2897843@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Alba4: that is a late practice!</p> <p>@shabang: I’ve been going to bed at 9 most nights! Lol! DS1 gets a shower every other night and the baby gets 1-2 baths a week. The evenings are rushed but we try to make the best of it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2897797 Wed, 25 Sep 2019 13:22:56 +0000 shabang 2897797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't know how you all do it! Sometimes my 1st grader and preschooler are in bed by 9, but not always. Everyone is out the door by 7am, but they probably only get up about 15 min before that. I get home with the kids by about 5:45, my husband around 6:45, but we're barely getting dinner together and eaten before 7:30, much less baths/showers and bed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2897625 Tue, 24 Sep 2019 07:56:36 +0000 Alba4 2897625@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first grader is in bed with lights out between 8:15 and 8:30. I’d love to get him into bed much earlier, but it’s really hard. Plus he has soccer practice until 7:30 one night per week (wtf). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2896429 Mon, 09 Sep 2019 15:30:49 +0000 ALV91711 2896429@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@hellobeeboston: I’m worried about the time crunch in the evening. I go back to work tomorrow. So far 7:30 has been doable since I’m home to get dinner ready early. Tomorrow we’ll all be home by about 5. Got to have dinner, get the baby to bed then get DS1 to bed. Going to be interesting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2896394 Mon, 09 Sep 2019 11:46:31 +0000 hellobeeboston 2896394@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm trying to pull back from the later summer bedtime, but we try to head up at 8 and be asleep by 8:30... i'd love bedtime to be right at 8, but it's a struggle when we get home at 6 after sports and work to do dinner and get some time to hang out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2896342 Sun, 08 Sep 2019 20:47:22 +0000 ALV91711 2896342@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSRS: getting home at 4:30 would be awesome! That is a pretty early day though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader/page/2#post-2896333 Sun, 08 Sep 2019 18:31:10 +0000 MrsSRS 2896333@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ALV91711: this year we get home at 4:30 and it is AMAZING. Last year we got home at 5:45. It was incredibly, incredibly difficult. Especially as a single parent. But we don't have much wiggle because we leave at 6:40 every morning, so I'm up before 5:30 and the kids have to get up at 6. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896332 Sun, 08 Sep 2019 18:28:33 +0000 ALV91711 2896332@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsSRS: what time do you all get home? 7 seems like it would be a rush to be able to do. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896331 Sun, 08 Sep 2019 18:27:55 +0000 ALV91711 2896331@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anagram: I hope they slept in for you. I haven’t yet had to wake DS up for school. He has gotten up at a very different time every day. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896238 Fri, 06 Sep 2019 13:10:13 +0000 Anagram 2896238@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>ahhhhhhh.....my kids were both tired last night, so they were asleep by 7:30. And then they were both up at 6 sharp, which is mildly annoying, because I'd prefer they sleep until 6:15-6:30. Since I leave for work at 6:45, I need some alone time to shower and dry my hair, etc.</p> <p>Tonight, I'm going to try 8pm again and hope they sleep till 6:30 at least (since tomorrow is a weekend!). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896162 Thu, 05 Sep 2019 17:36:13 +0000 MrsSRS 2896162@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We get up at six. So bedtime is at seven, lights out at 7:30. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896145 Thu, 05 Sep 2019 11:24:03 +0000 ALV91711 2896145@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@graceandjoy: I like that schedule. </p> <p>We’ve done 7:30 bedtime and then he reads in bed for 15-30 minutes. I haven’t had to wake him up yet this week. I think it is because he is so excited to go to school. Today he got up at 5:45, luckily I was already up with the baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896131 Thu, 05 Sep 2019 08:45:11 +0000 graceandjoy 2896131@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My oldest just started kindergarten, we are lights out by like 8:10-8:15 and she's usually asleep by 8:30, waking up anywhere between 7-7:30. We don't leave for school till 8:40-8:45. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896050 Tue, 03 Sep 2019 14:26:20 +0000 ALV91711 2896050@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@hitchhiker: luckily I’m home today so we can do early dinner and bedtime if needed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896047 Tue, 03 Sep 2019 13:40:17 +0000 hitchhiker 2896047@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ALV91711: Mine was also up at the crack of dawn today! I am bracing myself for a rough evening... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896034 Tue, 03 Sep 2019 10:22:39 +0000 BlueWolverine 2896034@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My first grader is in the shower at 7pm, little sister takes a bath after her, then stories for both and lights out. They share a room. Lights out probably at 7:45ish. They have to get up at 6:45 to get the older to school on time. Today, the 3yo wasn't having it. She went back to sleep, which thankfully was fine, because I could stay home and hang until she woke up around 8. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-time-is-bedtime-for-your-first-grader#post-2896029 Tue, 03 Sep 2019 08:04:33 +0000 ALV91711 2896029@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>And here we are the first day and he woke up at 6! I think he will be pretty tired by the end of the day but it has been nice not having to hurry him for the first day. </p>