https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Apr 2026 08:33:42 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/edd-for-our-tfmr-coming-up-any-advice-on-how-to-stay-strong#post-2854760 Sun, 04 Nov 2018 15:19:58 +0000 LAZB 2854760@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Every year on our late son’s birthday and anniversary of his death we make sure to spend the day with at least one fun activity. We’ve brought the kids to the zoo, done indoor skydiving (without the kids), went to lunch and shopping, etc.<br /> you are right that whatever you choose to do is ok, but most girls I know that have lost babies few better about celebrating them than doing nothing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/edd-for-our-tfmr-coming-up-any-advice-on-how-to-stay-strong#post-2854732 Sun, 04 Nov 2018 10:32:58 +0000 Kaohinani 2854732@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Once again, Yellowbeach, I am so sorry for your loss. Anniversaries like this are so difficult. One of my oldest and closest friends had a late loss at 27 weeks about 12 years ago. Every year on the anniversary of her DS's due date, she and her DH have taken to a "date day" to keep themselves busy (Museums, coffee house for lunch, wine and painting, dancing, etc) and less depressed. The rule was that they stayed away from the house. Since then, they have given birth to a beautiful LO (a daughter, Tess, now 3). They continue with the tradition and make it family friendly (children's museum, shopping, festival events, craft shows, etc.). One way in which they honor Grant's (their son) memory is that her DH purchased her a silver strand bracelet with a single bead the first year he was to be remembered. Each year following, they have added a sterling bead (gold at 5 and 10 years) to commemorate his presence in their lives and the affect he had on them. He will never be forgotten, but with time, it has gotten easier for them ... as I suspect it shall for you and DH. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/edd-for-our-tfmr-coming-up-any-advice-on-how-to-stay-strong#post-2854725 Sun, 04 Nov 2018 10:03:45 +0000 bhbee 2854725@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I agree keeping busy! I like the idea above or planning a fun outing with your daughter. When I was not pregnant again after our d&amp;c last year, I thought about it a lot leading up but found that anticipation worse than the actual day. It’s a tough road :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/edd-for-our-tfmr-coming-up-any-advice-on-how-to-stay-strong#post-2854722 Sun, 04 Nov 2018 09:10:58 +0000 yellowbeach 2854722@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pachamama: Thank you - I love those ideas. I do love interior decorating, so a design project might be just what I need. :heart: Also, sorry for your loss. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/edd-for-our-tfmr-coming-up-any-advice-on-how-to-stay-strong#post-2854708 Sun, 04 Nov 2018 05:26:02 +0000 pachamama 2854708@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@yellowbeach: I'm so sorry. I have been there, though not quite as tough of a situation as yours (just an MC/ D&amp;C at 12 weeks). I so hoped I would be pregnant by the due date but I was not really even close (had gone to an RE who gave me a dire outlook) and it was devastating. I would say no to the PJs bc even on a good day that can be depressing ;-) ! Stay busy and do something you love. I redid my room- painted an accent wall and got some cute things at Homegoods. It really eased the blow for some reason to be so busy. I hugged my son and cried a little (lot). (I also posted about it on FB and got a lot of support that way but that is certainly not for everyone). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/edd-for-our-tfmr-coming-up-any-advice-on-how-to-stay-strong#post-2854693 Sat, 03 Nov 2018 20:19:11 +0000 yellowbeach 2854693@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Dec 2 is the due date for our daughter we lost to T21 back in May. I'm really torn on what to do on that day. DH and I are both off from work, but I doubt (unless I say something) he will even realize the significance of the day. </p> <p>Any ideas for staying busy? Should I expect to try to get out, or just be prepared to stay in PJs all day? I realize that whatever I decide is acceptable, but I'm hoping for some ideas on how to make the day more meaningful and to honor her in some way.</p> <p>ETA: I was REALLY hoping we'd be pregnant again by now to soften the blow, but alas... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672672 Sun, 01 Jan 2017 13:22:16 +0000 Mrs. J 2672672@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@youboots: :heart: we will have to come back and do dinner together there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672634 Sun, 01 Jan 2017 10:41:26 +0000 youboots 2672634@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. J: ❤️ It's been so fun to stay in touch after helping with travel. They opened Recipe Part Deux -Friday night was the opening. It's tapas style- really fun! The big house will still be awhile. Having my fave restaurant closed for 6 months has been a bummer. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672590 Sun, 01 Jan 2017 00:28:26 +0000 Mrs. J 2672590@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@alphagam84: when we went to Oregon wine country, @youboots: was SUCH great help!!! Painted Lady is delicious.</p> <p>@youboots: did Recipe open back up??? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672581 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 22:56:22 +0000 AnnabelleG 2672581@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>In Portland, we love Por Que No with or without kids. Amazing tacos and best margaritas. Breakside has the best beer. I also second Toro Bravo and Beast. Ned Ludd, Ox and Katchka are fantastic. Food carts are always fun (we like the ones on SE Division the best). Little T is the best bakery and Coava and Water Avenue serve our favorite coffee. Too many great places! Have a fantastic time! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672576 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 21:51:23 +0000 travellingbee 2672576@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We did Sonoma (Healdsburg-- so cute and great wineries all around it!) and Mendocino a few years ago. Loved both areas! The coast down Rt. 1 is so gorgeous! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672539 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 20:18:13 +0000 youboots 2672539@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@alphagam84: I live in Oregon wine country so that's the area I know the most about. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672537 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 20:16:07 +0000 youboots 2672537@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For Portland Toro Bravo is tops for a Tapas dinner. El Gaucho or Beast for something higher end. The Open Table app is great for brunch reservations- I would not mess with brunch lines. Urban Farmer at The Nines is a really cool brunch spot. For really causal check out Tilt or Brunchbox for breakfast lunch or dinner. McMenimans Edgefield is a little bit out of the city but very cool for a one or two night stay.</p> <p>I'm not sure if you are talking Oregon wine country or Napa and/or Sonoma. I've been to both and I love Oregon. The winemaker or owner may be pouring your wine and you would never know. Some of the best are Sokol Blosser or Stoller. There are nice bnbs here too. And it's way cheaper than CA.</p> <p>We stayed in Crecent City for a weekend on our way to SFO. It was ok. I really liked Seaquake brewing. Next time I'd stay in Eureka. We did the drive thru tree and went to the Ladybird Johnson grove.</p> <p>For SF I like the Inner Richmond and Cow Hollow neighborhoods and just stay in an air bnb. SPQR is an amazing special occasion place. I love the lobster roll at the Woodhouse Fish co. Also be sure to catch an In N Out burger. Alfred's steak house is really awesome. We went there for our 1 year anniversary. MOMA just reopened after being closed for years. </p> <p>Let me know if you have more specific questions. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672524 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 19:46:31 +0000 alphagam84 2672524@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@youboots: We will be leaving the little one at home! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672301 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 02:23:12 +0000 youboots 2672301@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Bluebonnet: totally agree we went there for our 9 year anniversary. Recipe is my favorite in the Willamette valley though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672300 Sat, 31 Dec 2016 02:22:10 +0000 youboots 2672300@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just did this trip over thanksgiving! Will you be traveling with our without kids? My recommendations depend on that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672265 Fri, 30 Dec 2016 23:05:57 +0000 Mrs. Turtle 2672265@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If you're interested in really getting out in nature and exploring some mountains and lakes, the area immediately around Mt Shasta is pretty unbeatable. Not too crowded, incredible scenery and some of the best hikes and swimming lakes you'll find anywhere. In June, depending on how this winter is, you will be limited to lower elevations, but there are some wonderful sights to see even without going into the high country. If you're thinking of going through that area on I-5, feel free to message me on my wall and I can give you some specific recommendations. Also, hikemtshasta.com is a wonderful resource. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672258 Fri, 30 Dec 2016 22:48:08 +0000 Bluebonnet 2672258@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oregon has fantastic Pinot Noirs! If you go to Oregon wine country, The Painted Lady is a fantastic restaurant. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/oregoncalifornia-travel-recommendations-needed#post-2672233 Fri, 30 Dec 2016 21:30:28 +0000 alphagam84 2672233@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For our 5 year anniversary we are planning a trip to Oregon/California next summer (most likely June). I was thinking of flying into Portland to start our trip and make our way down to San Francisco. I want to make sure we see the redwoods (the huge ones you can drive a car through!) and spend a day in wine country. I always see such beautiful pictures of mountains and lakes in that area and want to make sure we get out in nature to explore. Also looking for great eats! I've heard so many great things about the Portland food scene! If you're from the area or have traveled there, I'd love some recommendations of food, where to stay, what to do, etc.! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670134 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 22:05:56 +0000 delight 2670134@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>A second wedding band. I wanted one on each side but never thought I'd have two bands. It was a surprise. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670080 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 14:50:29 +0000 Mrs. J 2670080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I got him a watch he really wanted, and he got me a Tiffany infinity bracelet. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670071 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 14:06:02 +0000 Mrs. Pen 2670071@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I got him a watch, but told him he didn't have to get me anything cause I got the ring :silly: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670026 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 09:46:37 +0000 autumnlove 2670026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nothing! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670021 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 09:01:18 +0000 avivoca 2670021@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nothing. We were 21 and 22 and broke college students. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670006 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 07:38:07 +0000 bushelandapeck 2670006@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He gave me a sweet card and a pearl bracelet. I gave him a card and cuff links with a map of where our wedding was. Oh, and a bottle of 18yr scotch for him to have with his groomsmen. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2670003 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 07:32:32 +0000 travellingbee 2670003@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He surprised me with a necklace- it was a silver infinity symbol with a pearl. Beautiful and sentimental. </p> [attach=3175/16/oiow9k.522x600.IMG_8870.PNG] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2669998 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 07:26:18 +0000 FaithFertility 2669998@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nothing! To be honest I never heard of this until after we were married! We were the first in our group of friends to wed!<br /> We did exchange cards! That was sweet! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2669979 Sat, 24 Dec 2016 00:19:27 +0000 LemonJack 2669979@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We exchanged cards, but no gifts. If they're exchanging gifts, I feel like jewelry would be a great choice because she'll always connect that piece to her wedding day (along with her ring!). Like others have said, maybe diamond studs or a necklace of some sort. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2669296 Thu, 22 Dec 2016 12:35:40 +0000 dolphin 2669296@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Chanel pearl necklace and earrings </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/what-did-your-husband-give-you-as-a-wedding-gift/page/2#post-2669295 Thu, 22 Dec 2016 12:35:38 +0000 hellobeeboston 2669295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>he sent over a bottle of dom with a sweet card.</p> <p>i sorta considered our rings our gifts! </p>