https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 25 Apr 2026 07:51:06 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765369 Sat, 05 Aug 2017 11:19:48 +0000 meadow 2765369@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BadgerMom: I nurse them to sleep and overnight but all day long food is their sustenance - so they should be hungry enough for meals.</p> <p> @PawPrints: I think ending the meal is good - but I just struggle with punishing myself having hungry babies.....but I guess that is a short term problem and that is what I have to pay attention to. Right now I give meal time outs where I take all their food and don't give them anymore for a period of time when they start hurling their food.</p> <p>@bluestriped bee: I might try that yogurt idea! For now I've been preloading spoons and giving it to them. (As of the last 10 days or so....) and that has been working pretty well as far as them eating more yogurt - but they still make a huge mess of their bodies and throw the spoon a bit.</p> <p>So I guess I have another year of this or more...... time to suck it up and get used to it! haha. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765323 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 23:50:22 +0000 Portboston 2765323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My guy (now 2) is a hard fast rule follower (I guess my that's my gift for his horrific sleep!) so he's never been much of an intentional food dropper/thrower. However, accidents happen and of course there've been times where I've had to do some floor cleaning. Hes gotten LOADS better since he started using utensils. He learned to use a spoon around 12 months and a fork shortly after. He hates touching food so that was his motivation to learn to use them early! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765232 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 13:33:27 +0000 lioneyes 2765232@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel like around 2.25-2.5 it got cleaner? He definitely picks things up if he drops them off his plate, and a lot less falls on the floor. Still uses his shirt as a napkin which we are working on. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765228 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 13:13:39 +0000 Alba4 2765228@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I feel like it got better around 3? DS2 is so messy right now too. He throws food on the floor as a game and likes to mash it into his hair. I don't have as many hand-me-down shirts from DS1 because they we're badly stained from this stage. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765227 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 13:11:50 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2765227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think around age 2 they started using real plates at school so they kinda learned to not mess around so much. You also could try an EZPZ mat or something if you think part of the problem is food sliding around too much. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765222 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 12:38:14 +0000 brownepiano 2765222@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I don't remember when it got better but my 3.5 year old is fairly neat now and when he makes a mess on purpose I have him clean it up. I still sweep after every meal with DS 2 though. I'm just happy that he's mostly stopped throwing his bowls on the floor. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765211 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 12:10:52 +0000 Raspberry 2765211@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Around his second birthday DS started becoming really interested in eating the food on our plates as well as in using utensils to put food in his mouth. There was a lot less food on the floor. Flinging now only happens after he is no longer hungry and getting bored.</p> <p>However, that's also when he got really interested in pouring his liquids out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765207 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 11:54:24 +0000 pachamama 2765207@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>18m here and it's a shitshow, and he doesn't even (usually) throw food. That's why I have dogs, they do a great job cleaning up. Seriously! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765196 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 11:17:21 +0000 BSB 2765196@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Twins are 23 months and they are so so messy. Plus, they hate bibs so I've given up on using them. I just have to pre-treat all of their clothes before I wash them. </p> <p>I have those splash mats that I put under their high chairs. Protects the floors, somewhat. </p> <p>I do feel like if I spoon fed them that more will get in their mouths and less on the floor. Well, nevermind, DD will start chewing something and it will look like she likes it and will swallow but then she'll spit it out. We joke that she is chipmunk and holds her food in her cheeks until she is over it. Oh, but spoon feeding doesn't help them develop skills in picking up food and feeding it themselves. I think the mess it just something I have to deal with. I did stop giving them a bowl with yogurt and a spoon because that was just too messy for me. Now I give them drinkable yogurt and poke a straw through the foil. My kids might not know how to eat soups but I think it's okay for now. </p> <p>Babies are at the 3rd percentile and have always been under or off the curve. But they eat well, they are gaining weight (slowly), we are supplementing their milk with a scoop of pedisure. I think we are doing everything we can to get them to grow. I think they will always be small because they were preemies and I'm petite. Dr isn't worried.</p> <p>ETA: I asked my sister who has a son 6 months ahead of my twins. She said she asks her son to pick up food when he throws it or drops it. So I'm thinking asking them to be helpful in the cleaning will help them really think about dropping food. She said some food are messier than others and will be messy. It makes sense to me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765194 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 11:15:37 +0000 PawPrints 2765194@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DD was probably around that age when we also had a ton of food ending up on the floor and I was surprised to hear from a group of parent friends with babies the same age that they just didn't allow it. Someone said something like, we don't tolerate throwing food on the floor. It was kind of a light bulb moment for me because I hadn't considered that we had any choice about it. (Not nearly as exhausting for us as it is for you though, since we only have one baby and we have two big dogs cleaning up the mess). But yeah, we just started giving her food a tiny bit at a time, and if she started throwing it, then the meal was over. She learned extremely quickly. Not long after that she started getting good at utensils, using real bowls and plates and glasses, etc. She's 2y4m now and no mess at all other than a little spill on her placemat. (The dogs are very disappointed.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765193 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 11:14:33 +0000 BadgerMom 2765193@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@meadow: Yeah that makes sense. I think it's just giving it time until they are taking eating solids more seriously, and unfortunately I don't think there is a magic age for that. </p> <p>Are they only eating solids at this point or are you still breast/formula feeding? If you are still breast/formula feeding my guess would be that they're really not THAT hungry for solids and once you wean, they will be more interested in getting the food to their mouths because they are hungry.</p> <p>In the mean time, could you put down a trash bag or something under their chair to catch the mess so you don't have to mop every night? That must be exhausting! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765187 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:58:32 +0000 meadow 2765187@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I think I am giving them very little at a time. (2 bite size pieces of meatball, or &lt;10 pieces of corn/peas, or 1 pancake, etc)</p> <p>Sometimes the throwing is just dropping because they made a mistake, sometimes it is intentional, sometimes they don't want that particular food anymore, and sometimes it is because they have a burp they are working on and they throw everything until they belch - then go back to eating normally.</p> <p>I struggle with ending the meal early because I want them to eat and not be hungry - hungry babies don't sleep well and are just so grouchy! This could be leftover subconscious worry since my DS was in the 1st percentile at one point..... now both kids are in healthier percentiles - but I still worry I guess. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765185 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:55:01 +0000 sauerkraut 2765185@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I can't give you a light at the end of the tunnel, just commiseration. I've largely given up on hoping my 13 month old will not drop food on the floor, or drop a fair amount down her lap where it will eventually end up on the floor when she gets out of the high chair. My dog in baby scrap heaven 3-4 times a day! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765183 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:52:12 +0000 BadgerMom 2765183@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@erinbaderin: I agree. We gave LO a couple bites at a time, if he finished it, he got more, if he played with it, he didn't.<br /> At this point I think they are probably pretty good at getting food to their mouths when they want to (maybe I'm wrong?). So if a ton of food is hitting the floor, I'd take that as a signal that they're done. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765181 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:50:02 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2765181@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>As much as we watch and correct and redirect LO when he eats at least a few pieces of food are purposely spilled on the floor. In general meal time got neater around 11 months when we stopped putting a bib on him. We mostly feed him sauce-less foods, but he definitely makes a mess out of berries staining his clothes. When he starts playing we take his plate away and that straightens him out. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765177 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:45:52 +0000 erinbaderin 2765177@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Are they dropping it, or throwing it on the floor? If you're cleaning up that much every night maybe you're giving them too much at a time? W is 16 months and we just give him a few pieces of each thing, and once it starts hitting the floor I assume he's done. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-does-eating-get-less-messy#post-2765168 Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:37:00 +0000 meadow 2765168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I did BLW with my 14 month old twins. So they have been guiding food to their own mouths for 8 months now... I am getting tired of cleaning food up off the floor 4x a day. Last night was average and I probably cleaned up 1 - 1.5 cups of food.</p> <p>At the conclusion of each meal I get on my hands and knees and gather up the food/wet paper towel the floor to clean up the mess. Then clean each baby off (Breakfast and Dinner we do in only a diaper and I try to keep lunch to less messy foods) before I clean off their trays and we go about our day. It's easily 15 minutes to get through that process. While I clean the floor I am also ducking away from grimy fingers which inevitably paint my hair with something. Hah.</p> <p>In any case - looking for the light at the end of the tunnel. How old do kids stop making such a mess? I honestly feel like I need to mop every day - but I don't have the time or energy for that after they go to bed so we live with a slightly sticky kitchen floor. (gross - oh well.) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2693323 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 19:55:48 +0000 meadow 2693323@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: I should clarify - they don't throw the food to be annoying/messy...it is more of a lack of control I think. Like they are trying to turn the piece of food around in their hand to get a better angle and it falls out. Or they are inspecting it like the Statue of Liberty and then drop it like they would a toy - but it goes to the floor.</p> <p>@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: @Littlebit7: @MrsRoo: Oh we absolutely eat in diapers only as a way of keeping the kiddos clothing clean (their bibs are an absolute disaster so I learned that lesson quick!)</p> <p>@Littlebit7: That is a good idea about seating them on the floor ontop of a mat. This could certainly take out the mess factor for atleast the wooden chairs! I'll give that a shot in our routine!</p> <p>@Lady Baltimore: I think it was the third day of solids that I thought for half a second that I wished we had a dog! </p> <p>@Gingerbebe: Well that's a neat idea for protecting the chairs!</p> <p>@Foodnerd81: Bowls? What are those? haha - we aren't anywhere close to bowls or utencils yet!</p> <p>@Babytsmom: That also is a good idea since they can't rip it off! My DD just figured out how to remove her own bib.</p> <p>@T.H.O.U.: I agree - I only put 1 or two pieces of food on their tray at a time.</p> <p>Thank you all for your responses - tips - ideas! I feel better knowing I'm not alone and you all survived (hopefully without ant invasions or ruined floors!) I look forward to trying some of these strategies out! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692921 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 10:56:33 +0000 T.H.O.U. 2692921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I agree with limiting the amount of food on the tray really helps. One or two pieces and then they get more when that is eaten. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692913 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 10:51:09 +0000 brownepiano 2692913@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I use the same Fisher Price boosters. They can go in the dishwasher! We have ours strapped onto a chair I don't care about. We only have the back strap on so it's easy to lift up and clean. </p> <p>Full arm bibs are great. We also just change onsies after every meal. He drools so much anyway it is easier. </p> <p>I do a mix of spoon feeding and BLW, but it's all table food. If it's really messy I just give him a little to try to pick up and spoon feed him the rest. Or give him the non messy stuff and spoon feed the rest. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692784 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 08:47:14 +0000 Littlebit7 2692784@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh and also. If you want to feed them BLW-style outside the house, get some of the smock bibs. They cover their entire little bodies and you can throw the in the wash. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692780 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 08:41:48 +0000 MrsBrewer 2692780@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lady baltimore: this was my suggestion! We have 2 labs, and I never have to clean food off the floor! 😂😉 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692776 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 08:28:48 +0000 lamariniere 2692776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@ElbieKay: oh yeah! Those Bjorn bibs for the win! </p> <p>I hadn't heard about BLW when my oldest kid was in that stage, but I tried it with my younger one. I put everything on a plate and only put 2-3 items at a time, and very small portions. It was more about not wasting than mess (even though I hate mess). Something that was also important to me was to teach my kids to eat properly by keeping food on the plate. Sure, things would end up on the table or floor, but a surprising amount also stayed where it was supposed to. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692771 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 07:52:33 +0000 KayKay 2692771@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, it's messy. I can't imagine doing it for every meal with 2 babies and without a dog!</p> <p>I'd give yourself a little grace. Do what you can to help with the mess (ideas suggested above: no clothes on, the baby bjorn bib, put them right on the floor, some sort of splat mat underneath). And on the days when you don't feel like cleaning up as much mess, do some purees or give them smaller amounts of drier/less messy foods without guilt! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692770 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 07:33:42 +0000 ElbieKay 2692770@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is why I did not bother with BLW. We spoonfed messy food. We let him play with less messy food. My inner crunchy mama liked the concept of BLW but mama already had her hands full with the rest of her mama job (and her office job).</p> <p>Eta yes the baby bjorn trough bib was key. Still is, in fact, at almost 3yo. We don't use it all the time, but it's critical to contain things like breakfast cereal. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692769 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 07:24:25 +0000 Mrs. Lemon-Lime 2692769@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MrsRoo: @peaches1038: yes, the bibs with the "trough" help a lot! We use <a href="https://www.amazon.com/BabyBj%C3%B6rn-046270us-BABYBJORN-Soft-Bib/dp/B00N9YKXG0" rel="nofollow">https://www.amazon.com/BabyBj%C3%B6rn-046270us-BABYBJORN-Soft-Bib/dp/B00N9YKXG0</a></p> <p>One other tip: I find when I eat with LO he is much more focused on putting food in his mouth and keeping his arms and hands in front of him. Walking around doing "kitchen stuff" inevitably are messier nights. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692748 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 00:49:26 +0000 katsupgirl 2692748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@lady baltimore: that was my solution with my first cause I don't remember that much of a mess. Dogs love BLW!</p> <p>I'm considering a splat mat but will probably just swifter every night. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692747 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 00:43:00 +0000 youboots 2692747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Get a dog. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692743 Tue, 07 Feb 2017 00:00:24 +0000 BabyTsMom 2692743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Get a splat mat or two. They are easily wiped down after meals and keep the mess off of your floors. After a few months of trying different silicone bibs, we resorted to putting slightly oversized t-shirts over our LO's shirt during meals. (This is second-best to a naked baby!) We went to Old Navy and bought a few t-shirts on clearance that were 3 sizes too big, but were perfect to put on over our kid's normal shirt. Not perfect (like if he was wearing long-sleeves, etc), but really really helpful in keeping most of the food off of his shirt! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/blw-is-a-giant-mess-tips#post-2692734 Mon, 06 Feb 2017 22:23:11 +0000 MrsRoo 2692734@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Definitely diapers only for meals and something on the floor to catch spills. I'll also second the bibs that @peaches1038: linked to. They are the best pouch style bibs I've tried. And DD has learned that if her tray is empty she can take food out of the pouch and eat it. </p>