https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Thu, 09 Apr 2026 01:10:38 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992468 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 19:22:23 +0000 Espion 1992468@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, what an asshat. Your day should definitely be done by now. I hope you have a super relaxing holiday and L starts feeling better ASAP. Lady, have a glass of wine, sink into the couch, and say "F%#@ them all." It's cathartic. :) :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992352 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 17:06:44 +0000 Kimberlybee 1992352@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I'm so sorry life's been rough the past few months. Hope you get to rest up during holidays. Hang in there! Hugs. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992346 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 16:58:43 +0000 alohaorchid 1992346@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so, so sorry that you're having such a horrible day!</p> <p>You work downtown right? Next time this happens, wall me. I'll be happy to meet for a coffee/lunch :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992227 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 15:43:08 +0000 MrsLilybugg 1992227@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: HUGS </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992217 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 15:40:25 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1992217@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh I'm so sorry that you are having such a hard time. The only thing that helps me when I'm in the midst of something like this is the "laugh to keep from crying" approach. Good sick humor is a big help. </p> <p>Here is a joke my ex used to tell that is not for everyone but for some reason still makes me laugh to myself. Perhaps in its simplicity it's brilliant. Imagine someone with a thick New York accent telling it. </p> <p>Q: Why do women wear makeup and perfume? </p> <p>A: Because they are ugly and they smell. </p> <p>Hope better days are ahead.</p> <p>Oh and I want to add that I am so so extra sorry about your dad. That's just heartbreaking. Much love! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992117 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:48:27 +0000 Lindsay05 1992117@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aww so sorry lady :( you have every right to have a good cry. I hope things start to improve for you soon. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992116 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:48:07 +0000 Reese 1992116@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: well, you know how I feel about this uber shitty situation :bummed: I hope everything's starts coming up twist in 2015! Sending love :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992080 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:35:59 +0000 mrbee 1992080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: Sounds like a really tough couple of months!! :( I was sick for a few months recently, and it got me so down... can't imagine dealing with all the other stuff you mentioned too!</p> <p>Hope things get better soon!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992057 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:26:24 +0000 Mama Bird 1992057@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Gosh, I'm sorry. Your boss is a jerk. I hope you and your family get good news for the rest of this year and beyond. Feel better, and get some rest over the holidays! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992055 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:26:10 +0000 Mrs. Jump Rope 1992055@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: give this to your coworkers. It's appropriate for sooooo many situations. </p> [attach=1772/14/ngugnm.500x354.image.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992053 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:25:53 +0000 avivoca 1992053@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you are going through this. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992048 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:24:08 +0000 MapleMoose 1992048@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: hugs </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992022 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:11:27 +0000 illumina 1992022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, friend. I'm on my way out and don't have time for a long reply...just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1992005 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:03:48 +0000 .twist. 1992005@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: Thank you! I will do my best. ;) </p> <p>@ballerinabee: Thank you for your reply. I have talked with outside people before. If I can't get through this on my own, I have no issues going for an outside opinion. :) I also LOVE the someecard! haha it is SO APPROPRIATE. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991997 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 14:01:02 +0000 ballerinabee 1991997@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>And I'd say excuse my language, but this someecard seems appropriate for your boss today... </p> [attach=5404/14/ngufhr.420x294.Bad-Day.png] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991976 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:50:26 +0000 ballerinabee 1991976@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: Oh my gosh, I am so sorry! Vent to us any time. That is a LOT for anyone to deal with. </p> <p>Can you send a summary email with short bullets on the status of the items so that he knows you're on top of things, and then deal with it when you come back after vacation?</p> <p>Do you have someone you can talk to outside of work and family (counselor or something similar)? Having someone help you process your grief over your Dad's illness, frustrations with work and health issues, etc. can be really helpful. At least it's helped with my depression / anxiety and mountains of outside stressors (step-family/ex drama, work, family, health, marriage, etc.).</p> <p>The most important thing I can say to you is be patient and kind to yourself. We are often our own worst critics, and self-flogging isn't good. Your body and your LO need you to take care of yourself. Take some time (even 5 minutes) to meditate, close your eyes and pay attention to how your body is feeling, and give yourself permission and love to feel whatever you're feeling. Mad, sad, frustrated, grumpy, tired, whatever. </p> <p>Maybe a (family) friend could go over and set up Skype for your parents and facilitate the call so you &amp; LO can see your Dad? </p> <p>I hope you are all feeling better soon. And if all else fails, make a crude voodoo doll of your boss and torture it! :wink: </p> <p>Hugs and love and hang in there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991943 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:40:47 +0000 blackbird 1991943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry you're having such an awful day :( YOu have a well deserved holiday break coming up and hopefully you can get to relax and enjoy it! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991940 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:40:08 +0000 .twist. 1991940@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anagram: Thank you. Honestly, with my dads illness, and our illnesses and depression that I've been battling the last while... I'm just not in a good place to look right now. Which doesn't really help with the depression. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991937 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:39:02 +0000 .twist. 1991937@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Smurfette: @oliviaoblivia: @LovelyPlum: @FliegepilzHut: @coopsmama: @Modern Daisy: Thank you all. &lt;3 </p> <p>@mediagirl: I think that is exactly what I'm going to do. :) </p> <p>@lawbee11: Thanks! A good meme always makes me smile. :D &lt;3 </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991934 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:38:07 +0000 Anagram 1991934@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: I remember your previous posts about your job--I really hope you find something better soon! =( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991929 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:37:04 +0000 lawbee11 1991929@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry, friend. Hope things start to look up for you soon. In the meantime, here's a meme to (hopefully) make you smile. </p> [attach=1395/14/ngueds.457x499.trex.jpg] https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991908 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:31:03 +0000 Modern Daisy 1991908@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: Blah! Well I hope you feel better soon! :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991900 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:29:02 +0000 coopsmama 1991900@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>So sorry!!! Hope you're little guy gets feeling better ASAP and that you're able to get so much needed rest this holiday season. :heart: :heart: :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991877 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:18:28 +0000 FliegepilzHut 1991877@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry you're feeling overwhelmed! :sad: Sending lots of hugs and healing vibes for you, your dad, and LO! :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991875 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:17:57 +0000 mediagirl 1991875@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm so sorry. Family and holidays and illnesses combined make for such a stressful time. I hope you get through today okay and can enjoy some time off work for a while before getting back into it after Christmas. Maybe you just pretend you work on this SUPER IMPORTANT PILE and then at 5, you peace out and forget about it.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991867 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:12:47 +0000 LovelyPlum 1991867@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:heart: and :heart: and :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991859 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:09:14 +0000 oliviaoblivia 1991859@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Big hugs. Sounds like your plate is too full. I hope 2015 is easier and healthier for you and your family. :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991856 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:05:56 +0000 Smurfette 1991856@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Hugs! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991851 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:04:48 +0000 .twist. 1991851@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: @Mamaof2: Thanks ladies. :) and yes, it can wait. Hell, there was only one thing that hadn't been dealt with so I don't know what his issue was. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/im-having-a-terrible-day#post-1991826 Fri, 19 Dec 2014 12:50:36 +0000 Mamaof2 1991826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Huge hugs coming your way! Sorry its been a rough couple of months and the news about your dad (praying he pulls thru!).</p> <p>Does the work HAVE to be done before you leave today or can you just push it to the side will you get back?</p> <p>2015 is right around the corner - I think its gonna be a good year :heart: </p>