https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 06 Apr 2026 03:40:08 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1938168 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 18:27:11 +0000 coopsmama 1938168@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: That's awesome! Great news.</p> <p>Our home just went on the market today and I'm already preparing myself for just how frustrating this process likely will be! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937952 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 15:41:24 +0000 LAZB 1937952@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anya: @sunny: Thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937789 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 14:30:51 +0000 sunny 1937789@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: awesome news! Good luck with inspections! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937784 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 14:29:25 +0000 Anya 1937784@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: awesome news! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937777 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 14:27:19 +0000 LAZB 1937777@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We accepted an offer! The woman came back at $2k less than my lowest acceptable number, so I was ready to turn her down, but my realtor said that she would give me a $2k rebate to make up the difference, so I agreed.<br /> Now I really hope the woman isn't a huge pain with inspections! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937435 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 12:03:20 +0000 LAZB 1937435@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm sorry so many of y'all feel my frustration, but glad I'm not alone!<br /> Well, we don't have a final offer yet, but I think we should get a decent one by today. Basically we just want the woman to come up $4k, and I'm really not willing to budge any more. I know negotiations are par for the course, but we are priced reasonably based on comps, and I don't want to settle!<br /> @MOMTOLITTLEB: There is no way that I would be ok with repairing every little thing, that totally sucks! As we learned since getting our new place, only the things that NEED to be repaired are necessary, not the things that you WANT to be repaired. At least that's the way it is here. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937424 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 11:45:40 +0000 MOMTOLITTLEB 1937424@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@KRISIPI I really hope things get resolved soon. It's hard having to make family planning decisions based on things you can't control. We have one child but would like another one eventually and need to be in a bigger home before that happens. I'm ok with it for now but if we aren't settled this time next year, it will be harder to accept.</p> <p>Everything is so complicated, it feels like each day brings a new question and we didn't even think our situation was that complicated. We're losing a lot of money so that's scary too, I think we can survive it but it's still scary. I'm just hopeful that all of this is leading us to the perfect home for our family so someday we'll be so happy we won't care what it took to get there! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1937416 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 11:35:28 +0000 krispi 1937416@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's very stressful, no matter which side of the deal you're on. We've been trying to sell my old townhouse since the spring. We've been under contract since July, but since it's a short sale, we're STILL waiting for the bank to approve it. Meanwhile, we're still paying 2 mortgages every month. We're not pregnant going through this process, but TTC is waiting on getting the house sold, so I'm getting super impatient. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936858 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 18:46:01 +0000 Modern Daisy 1936858@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I hear you! I just closed on a house and am in contract to sell my apartment. The price negotiation to buy our new home annoyed me because the seller was asking WAY too much and very unreasonable about it since she grew up in the home. Now our buyers are slowly dragging this out since they "had to file taxes" and now are "waiting on the commitment" even though the offer was not contingent. Of course they also have to be approved by the board, which is a whole other issue. Blah, I can't wait for this to be over! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936834 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 18:04:38 +0000 MOMTOLITTLEB 1936834@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I do not envy you doing this pregnant! We recently accepted an offer, every repair on the home inspection needs to be done and at our expense because the buyer is getting a grant to buy. So annoying that it's become our problem! And there's nothing on the market we're interested in so we'll probably move in with my parents at the end of December. Then have to move again when we do find something! And hopefully never again because this is such a pain. I just want normal life! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936788 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 16:31:36 +0000 78h2o 1936788@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>It's a stressful process no matter what, but being pregnant makes it that much worse. We bought and sold when I was at a similar place in my pregnancy with DD. All the uncertainty and stress was difficult, esp. when I wasn't sleeping well to begin with! I think counter-offers and negotiating are pretty much par for the course...it's annoying, but it is what it is. Everyone wants to get the best deal possible...try not to take it personally/let it get to you. All I can say is hang in there, and do your best to get through it. Hugs. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936762 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 15:49:19 +0000 keepcalmcarrie 1936762@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: So much sympathy. I just went through the selling process, and we were in a major time crunch (I'm 30 weeks pregnant, my husband had already started his new job so I was solo-parenting a toddler, etc). We countered twice with our eventual buyer, and I still think they got our house for a song. For us, it was worth it to get the process over with. Now we're renting a house for 6 months while we get to know our new area. We might put in an offer on our current rental in the spring, but she's asked WAY too much for it in the past so I'm not optimistic about her accepting a reasonable price. I hate the game as well :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936668 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 13:53:21 +0000 BandDmommy 1936668@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: hopefully you get what you are looking for!!! :goodluck: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936654 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 13:41:59 +0000 LAZB 1936654@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: that's how it usually is, but we are just selling in a bad time I guess :( I guess the offer isn't that low, but I just hate the back and forth of it all.<br /> It doesn't help that we are in a big time crunch, so we need to accept an offer soon.<br /> We should get her second offer today or tomorrow, so I'll come back and update. Thanks for listening :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936614 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 13:14:58 +0000 BandDmommy 1936614@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: I'm sorry. :( I've never gotten a low offer so I've not had to deal with it. In our area, it's super competitive and houses end up in bidding wars. Which is annoying too. :bummed: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936613 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 13:14:42 +0000 BandDmommy 1936613@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: I'm sorry. :( I've never gotten a low offer so I've not had to deal with it. In our area, it's super competitive and houses end up in bidding wars. W </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936583 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 12:37:33 +0000 LAZB 1936583@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yep, we definitely plan on countering, I just hate the "game". </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936574 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 12:30:22 +0000 BandDmommy 1936574@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LAZB: I'd definitely counter if you aren't comfortable with the current offer. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/so-frustrated-with-buyingselling#post-1936485 Sun, 09 Nov 2014 10:49:08 +0000 LAZB 1936485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We have found a house we really want, and everything is set for us to close December 15th. We have had to deal with some issues with the seller, but decided to suck it up because we really love the house.<br /> Well now we are selling our house. We live in a very hot market area, but now is not a great time to sell. We have an offer, although it is low, but we can come back with a counter offer. The potential buyer also wants us to do some repairs, and who knows what the inspections will find. I feel like our asking price is reasonable, and although I am willing to come down a little, that's reall all.<br /> I'm so frustrated with this whole thing that I'm almost willing to lose out on the huge amount of earnest money we put down on the new place and just stay in our house. Maybe I'm just being emotional, and it doesn't help that I'm 23 weeks pregnant, but I hate this!<br /> No real question here, just venting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1770684 Mon, 21 Jul 2014 06:41:19 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 1770684@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@irene: just turned 3 and still nowhere near trained. The only reason I'm trying to push it (some kids are just ready later, esp boys) is that he's supposed to be trained for preschool this fall. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1770579 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 22:33:53 +0000 irene 1770579@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OMG you guys are really cracking me up. And thank you, thank you for sharing all these as it makes me feel less of a loser!! Argh!!</p> <p>@Sammyfab: You had me at "I've also raised a really classy kid" ROFL LOL, and your description on his diaper full of poop about 80% of the time LOL!!!</p> <p>@skibobrown: @MamaT: Hugs! What's up with going in the middle of a meal??? </p> <p>@Mrs. Yoyo: How old is your DS?</p> <p>@bunnylovesbear: Wow, your future is bright when your LO is doing all that already shy of 2!!! Kudos! I want to give diaperless a try now... but his room (where we hang out the most) is carpeted :-( Argh!!!</p> <p>@PinkElephant: You crack me up that your DD peed on your legs ! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1770189 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 16:28:04 +0000 T-Mom 1770189@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Sammyfab: that's hilarious! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769974 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 12:33:18 +0000 Sammyfab 1769974@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are soooo far from night / nap training. His diaper is full of poop about 80% of the time and he's only woken with a completely dry diaper maybe 5 times in his entire life.</p> <p>I've also raised a really classy kid. Apparently on a walk this morning he went up to a tree, pulled down his shorts and underwear and went pee. :shocked: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769943 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 12:02:08 +0000 bunnylovesbear 1769943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We've been doing what I like to call "naked mornings" in our household. After we finish breakfast, I immediately take off my son's diaper and he plays in just a tshirt. When he's diaper-less, he ALWAYS stops playing to go on the potty. (We have a potty chair right in our living room, so it is easily accessible.) However, whenever he has a diaper on, he has no issues going potty in his diaper. It's SO annoying because I know he can sense when he has to go, but if he has a diaper on, he could care less. A couple weeks ago, I tried putting underwear on him after he peed in the morning. They have Mickey Mouse on them, so he was super excited about it. Buuuut, he peed in them right away and was not happy about it. So I wiped him down and put another pair on him...which he again peed on a little later. So since then, he refuses to put on underwear and loves being diaper-less. Lol. I'm at a bit of a loss on where to go from here...he's a couple weeks shy of being two years old, so I know it's still a bit early. I was just hoping he'd progress a little more over the summer while I am home with him full time. (I'm a teacher). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769903 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 11:23:09 +0000 PinkElephant 1769903@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yesterday I told DD that someone else had to take her potty bc I was feeding the baby, and she responded by peeing on the floor (and my leg). I'm not sure if she just panicked or if it was on purpose. (We were just back from swimming do she was diaper less).</p> <p>She's also big on asking to go when she's bored - in the middle of dinner, or if I need to stop doing something with her to feed the newborn. It's hard but I feel like I have to jonir the request. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769791 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 08:35:25 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 1769791@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DS has only pooped on the potty twice. He always does it in a diaper (or undies, or even on the floor a couple times) when he is playing by himself. Always. Sometimes just a minute or two after I ask him whether he needs to poop. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769705 Sun, 20 Jul 2014 06:09:47 +0000 MamaT 1769705@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ugh! My 2.5 yr old son does so well going in the potty... As long as we tell him. He knows when he has to poop and will volunteeringly run to the bathroom. However, he can't figure out when he has to pee. The first few times he wet his pants, he cried (which I thought was good because then he would figure out when he needs to go) But now if he wets himself, it doesn't phase him. :bummed: When will he know he has to pee? Or will I constantly have to tell him to go? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769612 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 22:58:39 +0000 skibobrown 1769612@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>The insisting on going potty in the middle of meals, and then not going is pretty typical for us right now. </p> <p>Also, DD pooped in her undies every day for 2 weeks after we started potty training. (She was doing great with pee though.) Just the other day she finally starting pooping in the potty, but it's still only 50-50. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769593 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 22:39:13 +0000 T-Mom 1769593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Aw I'm sorry...<br /> My DS had a nap time accident at school after having no accidents for two months. He wet his bed last night at 3 am and I had to change his sheets while he cried... All to be expected but when I manage to get him in pull ups at night he stays dry.. And when he insists on wearing underwear to bed he wets his bed! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/potty-training-frustrations#post-1769569 Sat, 19 Jul 2014 21:57:16 +0000 irene 1769569@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>For us, lately LO (2.5 years old) would scream pee pee poo poo, and ask to change his diaper instead of using the potty. However, when I looked into his diaper, he is all clean and dry! So I would offer him to sit on the potty, but he really fights! He would insist on changing his clean diaper to another one. So if I change it to another one, he would announce pee pee poo poo in a few more minutes, again. Sometimes nothing happens until half an hour later. Argh! </p> <p>Another frustration we have is, he would announce "pee pee poo poo" in the middle of a meal, all the time. Then I would carry him upstairs, again, he won't sit down. Even if he sits down, he'd just be hanging out there for a while with nothing coming out. Sigh. It is especially hairy when the meal is half finished and downstairs is a mess (and I have to fear my cat jumping up on the table and start eating his food). It is also pushing me to my limits because I have to carry him up and down the stairs and it drives me crazy when I have to go back down to that complete messy dining room + kitchen. Sometimes LO won't even let me to go back down to clean up too because he announced he's all done eating. So I have to fight him. This has been happening very often lately and it is pushing me to the edge.</p> <p>Not to mention the other day, the school just stresses me out as the director told me the teachers said LO wouldn't ask to use the potty (hinting I should do something about it). Arghhhh. </p>