https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 08 Apr 2026 03:06:06 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38679 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 19:12:47 +0000 leelee 38679@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Rubies: I'm the same way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38655 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 18:43:20 +0000 MsMini 38655@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope, I don't have the time and energy to hold a grudge! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38650 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 18:39:52 +0000 Mrs. Pickle 38650@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Nope. Other people in my family are and I hate the effect it has on everyone. I didn't see my cousin for three years because of a grudge. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38630 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 18:14:01 +0000 Boogs 38630@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: Very true!</p> <p>You are all so much nicer than I am! Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38533 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 16:37:05 +0000 Rescuemom10 38533@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not really! Firm beleiver in fogiveness. However if its something that really is life afffecting or something BIG (as I think of something in particular here), I cant "forget" it, but I can and will be the "bigger" person but have a hard time completely letting go. Basically I will forgive, but have a hard time letting the hurt feeling go. If that makes sense? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38525 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 16:32:06 +0000 heffalump 38525@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Sometimes. Just depends on the situation. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38031 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 09:39:49 +0000 Mrsbells 38031@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I forgive but I dont forget and for certain people I keep a certain distance afterwards. My cousin in law and I used to be really close but then she created a lot of drama during the wedding planning. I'm still nice to her etc but I havent forgotten how she behaved and I dont plan to be as chummy with her as I was before </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-38022 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 09:36:41 +0000 chopsuey 38022@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Not at all! I'm a forgiver. :) Hubs used to hold onto grudges, but after being married to me, he's become a forgiver as well. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-37955 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 06:37:33 +0000 Rubies 37955@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I forgive but I never forget. It's bad...I wish I could not be this way. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-37950 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 03:31:18 +0000 Mrs. Armbender 37950@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrbee: That place is beautiful! What a wonderful remote vacation spot, your folks should be proud. My kind of place, rustic and remote (but not TOO rustic). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-37949 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 03:10:16 +0000 mynoahbear 37949@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>oh, i'm such a grudge holder. i'm not as bad as i used to be though. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-37944 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:42:27 +0000 Mrs. Armbender 37944@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Naw, grudges take up time and energy, which are luxuries in my world. If something is that bad to hold a grudge, than I would just walk away from that person all together. Usually though, if I am upset about something, I just sit on it for 24-48 hours and usually I can think back and realize it just wasn't as big of a deal as I origianlly thought that it was or it is just not worth the energy of being upset. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-37942 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 02:18:06 +0000 mrbee 37942@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Boogs: Haha well I had a pretty good excuse why my parents couldn't meet Bee's parents. My mom and dad literally live in a remote village on the other side of the world (in the Philippines)! </p> <p>You have to fly into Seoul, then wait a few hours, then connect into Manila, then wait some more, then take a puddle jumper to Palawan, and then take a motorcycle to the town. Then you walk a mile down a beach (there's no road).</p> <p>Here is a video of the beach in front of my parent's bed and breakfast:<br /> <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBuW-YfSJQU" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBuW-YfSJQU</a></p> <p>Here are their cottages and boats:<br /> <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oOuEZpcB84" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oOuEZpcB84</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/do-you-hold-grudges#post-37935 Tue, 20 Dec 2011 01:58:23 +0000 Boogs 37935@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Mr. Bee's bravery here <a href="http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-so-ask-your-parents-for-permission-to-marry-you" rel="nofollow">http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-your-so-ask-your-parents-for-permission-to-marry-you</a> got me thinking about how I would sooo hold a grudge against him for not listening to me! </p> <p>I'm the type of person that holds grudges, though. Are you a grudge holder? </p>