https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 06 Apr 2026 17:36:36 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1103648 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 12:48:02 +0000 littleblessings 1103648@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am 21 almost 22. I think he seriously is crazy and I think my mom is afraid of him. She never stands up for me or anything. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1103577 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 11:25:13 +0000 MrsTiz 1103577@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes, sorry to hear you're having such a rough time and can't fully enjoy being (openly) pregnant! </p> <p>Can I ask how old you are? Your stepdad sounds a little crazy, does your mom agree with how he treats/talks to you?</p> <p>Also, congrats on getting married soon! Only a few weeks away! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1103552 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 11:07:30 +0000 littleblessings 1103552@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>He lives with his parents and they won't let me move in. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1103510 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 10:45:32 +0000 blackbird 1103510@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Why don't you move in with your son's father? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1103447 Sun, 22 Sep 2013 09:37:24 +0000 littleblessings 1103447@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Thank you guys.</p> <p>Well I ran into some hiccups last night. I'm pretty sure if my step dad is smart he will put two and two together. My mom grabbed up a sign saying 'It's a boy' a week ago and left it in her van. My step dad found it and then later that night he poked my stomach saying, "spare tire". I'm super scared of what his reaction will be if he figures it out but I guess God would never throw me something that I cannot handle. </p> <p>On the upside: I have an interview for a three bedroom apartment on Tuesday. I hope that God will help me get through the wait list fast. Prayers would be appreciated. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1103014 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 19:21:06 +0000 katsupgirl 1103014@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Feel free to share here. We'll be excited with/for you. Congrats! :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1102761 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 13:49:55 +0000 Lindsay05 1102761@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@littleblessings: Welcome and congrats! </p> <p>I am so sorry you are in this situation. Seems the best thing for you is to move away from that horrible man. For me, I would announce it with pride and tell him to shove it but I understand that does not help anything at all. I hope you can get it worked out and be happy with yourself and your upcoming bundle of joy. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1102747 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 13:29:11 +0000 littleblessings 1102747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runsyellowlites</p> <p>Thank you! I am very excited.</p> <p>Well I live with my mother and step father. My mother is okay with me being pregnant again and is actually happy for me. I am hiding it from my step dad who will yell about 1 little hair being in the shower. He is definitely not nice and tried kicking me out when my daughter was almost 5 months old because I didn't take down the Christmas tree within the hour that he wanted me to. Granted I had been working on it the entire time but the lights on it were all tangled so it took longer. He is not an understanding individual. He yells at me for having my daughter despite the fact that he knows the sex was not voluntary. I can only imagine what would happen if he knew about this one. </p> <p>I marry my sons father in November and we have been together since February 2012 and were high school sweethearts. So its not like I don't have things figured out. This pregnancy was not in the plans at all. I was on the same pill as some of my other friends and we must have gotten a bad batch because we are all pregnant and due within days of each other. </p> <p>Idk. I just want to be able to be publicly happy about having a son. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1102743 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 13:24:31 +0000 Kimberlybee 1102743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Congratulations on your additional blessing! Babies are gifts from God, I can't imagine anyone would want to make life more difficult for a pregnant mother. If anything, they will be or should be more helpful. Are you getting weird vibes from the current landlord? Are you able to give us more detail about your living arrangement? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1102738 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 13:18:59 +0000 runsyellowlites 1102738@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>First, welcome &amp; congratulations!</p> <p>Second, I couldn't imagine anyone kick someone out just because their pregnant..... are there conditions of your living arrangements that would cause this to be against them? I could see how that would be incredibly stressful if so!</p> <p>I don't really have any advice since I don't know the specifics but I do hope you can get everything worked out soon! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lost-in-secret#post-1102735 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 13:16:35 +0000 littleblessings 1102735@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I am currently 20 weeks pregnant with a little boy. This makes my second child, first son. I am a month or so from getting my own apartment. Problem is I am afraid that if I come out about my pregnancy that I will be kicked out of my home. This fact is killing me because I am sooooo excited about this little bundle and I am having to hide it. This is causing sooo much depression in my life adding to preexisting bipolar disorder. How do I tell the people I am living with and convince them not to kick me out? </p>