https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Mon, 06 Apr 2026 10:51:26 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1584272 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 16:04:35 +0000 sandy 1584272@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Like PP mentioned we saved my income for a few years and lived off of DH's income. We bought our house thinking this was the way it was going to be for many years while I stayed at home with the kids. Rather than getting a house in the city we moved to try suburbs and got a house we could afford on one income. Fortunately over time DH has gotten a big promotion and makes more money </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1584028 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 14:20:08 +0000 Mrs. Lion 1584028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were able to decrease the amount taken out for taxes which added to our monthly income. We paid off all of our debt except our house and had a substancial emergency fund in place before hand. We live on a very specific budget. It is tight, butwe make it work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583973 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 14:04:58 +0000 gingerbebe 1583973@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH have been talking about and working on this for a long time. Basically, the only thing holding us back right now is that we have student loans that we'd like to get rid of faster than the standard repayment, so I don't think I'll quit right when we have the baby, but we'll give ourselves a longer maternity leave to see how I feel about it.</p> <p>My advice would be the following:</p> <p>Get on a monthly budget and assess your CURRENT expenses. Then cut where you can. We cut out cable and replaced it with Netflix and Hulu, for example. See if you can downgrade your phone plan to something more basic. Start meal planning and eating at home more often. Etc.</p> <p>Try to stabilize your monthly payments/expenses through recurring auto-payments and predictable billing dates, and budget any annual payments monthly so you know predictably how much money you need each month to survive. A budget and payment schedules obviously help with that. For example, we have our electricity on one of those plans where its always the same every month and we have our insurance docked every month, but budget for DH's life insurance and disability payments monthly because they are due once a year.</p> <p>Right now, we only have student loan debt. We budget for the minimum payments, but have been aggressively paying them down so that every spare cent we have goes to it. We want to go down to a single income with the least amount of expenses as possible. While we have that debt, we keep a minimal savings fund. Basically, our savings is enough to cover a likely emergency, which in our case would be a car repair or a sudden flight to go see a sick relative. So we keep enough for a larger car repair or 2 plane tickets on hand. If we tap it, we halt any extra debt payments to shore it back up, and then return to debt repayment. Were it not for that, we'd keep a savings of 6 months expenses.</p> <p>Once you get a handle on your current expenses, project your future expenses and savings. First, I'd highly encourage you to speak to an accountant about the tax ramifications of not working. You can figure out your deductions and how much you'd save on taxes (and thus get a better idea of your actual take home pay) plus figure out what retirement savings options there are for a spouse that stays at home. Then you can also calculate the savings of not working - actual daycare costs at a center you would send your child, average commuting costs, parking, clothing, eating out, etc. You may also have to make adjustments, such as increased utilities from staying at home, or increased health insurance costs from adding on a spouse or a child to an employer plan. We also will be budgeting for more expenses related to the baby - i.e. diapers, extra co-pays to see the pediatrician, an occasional babysitter, possibly more trips to see family.</p> <p>We've implemented most of these things into our lives while we're both working. We'll do a trial run of this by taking 3 months of my maternity leave unpaid. So we'll see how we actually handle the day to day of having a single income and also see how I like staying home with the baby. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583943 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 13:56:17 +0000 Circusbee 1583943@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Basically I just hope DH gets a better-paying job soon... I really don't think it's possible for us to live off of his salary alone. We could cut mine in half and be OK, but I'm not sure how I could find something flexible enough for that... I may have to continue working after all... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583808 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 13:18:47 +0000 Radish 1583808@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I knew I wanted to save money for a house, so all of my income went into savings already. We knew we could afford to live off of DHs income since we already were, plus we had plenty in the bank if something went majorly wrong. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583784 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 13:13:35 +0000 Weagle 1583784@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Willow: This is what we did. We knew from the beginning that I would be a SAHM, so we never used my salary. It went into savings while we budgeted using DH's. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583776 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 13:12:15 +0000 Bluemasonjar 1583776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We are about to start TTC and we have actually talked about having my husband stay home for the first year. We might need to try living on 1 salary and saving the rest. I think that is a great idea and good for our savings account. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583759 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 13:07:38 +0000 raspberries 1583759@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>What @Willow: said! We're TTC now and planning to drop to one income after that, so we're living on DH's salary alone right now and putting all of mine into savings. It took a little adjusting (eating out much less, meal planning to cut back on groceries, things like that) but it's working so far. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583708 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 12:57:39 +0000 Willow 1583708@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We haven't done this yet, but we are thinking about it in the future. Someone suggested testing it out by putting your whole salary into savings for a couple months, and living only off of DH's income. This way you can work out your budget, but will still have your income as a backup while you figure things out... and bonus, you're saving money. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/for-those-who-went-from-2-to-1-incomes#post-1583568 Tue, 22 Apr 2014 12:28:42 +0000 Circusbee 1583568@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Let's just say it's an idea that we may or may not go down to 1 income once we have our first child. Sometimes I'm completely up for the challenge and sometimes I just don't see how it could possibly work. DH and I are close to 50/50 as far as our income goes, but I make a little more... and I'd be the one staying home.</p> <p>I'd love to hear your stories about how and why you made it work! Did you save a certain amount first? Drop to part-time before quitting completely? Work from home a bit? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1319481 Sat, 04 Jan 2014 15:15:36 +0000 matador84 1319481@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Substitute teaching? Always looking for former teachers! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1319445 Sat, 04 Jan 2014 14:51:09 +0000 SweetMamaM 1319445@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm planning on tutoring in the evenings. I'm also looking at taking on freelance writing work. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1318917 Sat, 04 Jan 2014 06:34:06 +0000 Beyond2 1318917@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I used to tutor in the evenings. Maybe if you advertised only that you'd get some interest? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1318911 Sat, 04 Jan 2014 06:16:40 +0000 mjane 1318911@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I used to tutor. Very lucrative, and with HS kids it can be done in the evenings. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1318816 Sat, 04 Jan 2014 00:37:48 +0000 MrsMccarthy 1318816@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You might like the thread I opened that is similar. </p> <p><a href="http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/best-careers-for-a-mom-who-wants-to-spend-a-lot-of-time-with-her-kids" rel="nofollow">http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/best-careers-for-a-mom-who-wants-to-spend-a-lot-of-time-with-her-kids</a> </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1318758 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 23:37:06 +0000 Kimberlybee 1318758@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@kpc324: Yoga teacher sounds great. You would get in your workout and can use the gym's daycare too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/income-ideas-for-a-teacher-turned-sahm#post-1318749 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 23:28:33 +0000 kpc324 1318749@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I love being a mom to my three month old, but I'd love to make a little extra money without sacrificing too much time from her. Any ideas? Tutoring seems like the most logical choice,, but I'd have to find childcare for after school times since my husband wouldn't be home yet, so I'm not sure that would really work. Other things I've thought of are taking on another child or two for a small home daycare, or getting my yoga teaching certification. Does anyone have experience with any of those jobs, or any other ideas? Thanks :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-440069 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 15:20:32 +0000 lemondrop 440069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@septemberlove: it really is a great setup, you can contribute financially, which takes some stress off your partner. You get grownup time and a break, but you still don't miss much of that first year of constant changes! </p> <p>There are times though where I feel like I am doing a crappy job at both, but for the most part, it has increased my happiness exponentially! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-440060 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 15:10:01 +0000 mlm2934 440060@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@septemberlove: yours would be my perfect schedule when i have kids! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-440054 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 15:01:13 +0000 Mrs. Yoyo 440054@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Oh yeah. Especially since I'm a SAHM now since I can't find a job in our new city! I'm starting to freelance some, so that helps a bit, but still. It's a little depressing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439748 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 08:00:02 +0000 mediagirl 439748@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes. Before baby I would travel and when we travel, we get a stipend. I'm okay with not getting it. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439747 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 07:59:56 +0000 heffalump 439747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'm a sahm. I make nothing. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439743 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 07:56:54 +0000 lomom 439743@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I requested a reduced schedule, so I'll work 28 hours a week instead of 40 and have every Friday off to be with my son. My Mondays-Thursdays will be 7 hour days so that'll make things less hectic in the morning and give us a little more time in te evenings, compared to a typical 8 hour day. I'm excited for the chance to work a little less (and make less) since it means I'll have to best of both worlds! Still a rewarding career and extra time with my baby :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439737 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 07:48:45 +0000 rachiecakes 439737@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I went back to work full time and got a promotion, so I'm making more - which helps when I miss DS during the work day, I know I'm doing the right thing for our family and my hard work is paying off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439686 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 02:55:11 +0000 Mrs. Superhero 439686@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well, I stopped working, so yes. However, my husband finished school and started working full time at the same time, so our income stayed steady :) We're just used to being poor? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439651 Sun, 09 Dec 2012 01:09:45 +0000 lemondrop 439651@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yes, half as much since I went from a salaried 40 hours per week (often more unpaid) to averaging 20 hours per week hourly. Some weeks more, some less depending on what is going on. </p> <p>I LOVE IT!! I still get to keep my foot in the door at work, but I spend most of my time with my boy and working on projects around the house that I've been meaning to get to for years! Also, I get to avoid most of the major stressors of work since I am onsite only once a week, and get to work from home evenings and weekends and have regular tutoring sessions. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439592 Sat, 08 Dec 2012 23:40:17 +0000 sera_87 439592@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>our maternity leave is structured so you receive 55% of your pay at a cap of 1800$ per month for a year. So yes, I make less, but at least it's steady income (I work shift-work), and I get to be home with my baby for a year. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439550 Sat, 08 Dec 2012 22:31:28 +0000 BabyBoecksMom 439550@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Well, I got a small raise a couple months ago but that still doesn't make up the difference I pay insurance since I added DD to my plan. I'm making about $400 less per month so it feels like I make dramatically less. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-439498 Sat, 08 Dec 2012 21:27:53 +0000 littlek 439498@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I make the same but I'm hoping for a promotion in 6 months. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/did-you-make-significantly-less-since-the-birth-of-lo#post-438129 Fri, 07 Dec 2012 15:26:43 +0000 babynumber1 438129@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I came in right at the same. But since I took maternity leave and had to have an appendectomy, I'm ok with that. My raise balanced everything out. </p>