https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Wed, 06 May 2026 19:19:37 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572829 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:33:44 +0000 MrsBrewer 572829@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You are not the worst person, or even close to it! Don't feel bad! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572825 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:31:52 +0000 anonysquire 572825@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@mrsjyw: Thank you! I hope so too!</p> <p>@MsLipGloss: Ya I never ever thought it would take a while to get pregnant :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572811 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:26:13 +0000 MsLipGloss 572811@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Anonysquire: For those comments, I would add your sister to the *Worst* list. People just don't get it. It took us a little while (6 months), but I feel insanely lucky that that's all it took. I'm so sorry doll. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572807 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:24:28 +0000 mrsjyw 572807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>HUGS! I think the fact that you self-evaluate and critique just goes to show that you're not HORRIBLE!!! It's hard to go through what you're going through and put on a smile 100% of the time. I hope the road gets easier for you and you have your baby soon!!!! HUGGGGGGS </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572806 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:24:02 +0000 anonysquire 572806@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Shutterbug: Thanks!!!</p> <p>@MsLipGloss: Lol I was always the tall kid in middle school, then I stopped growing and everyone caught up! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572803 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:23:01 +0000 anonysquire 572803@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@runnerd: Ya it is hard. I'm sorry you get left out too :( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572800 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:22:19 +0000 anonysquire 572800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@pastemoo: Dang, I can't remember the first part in Up. And I will read the blog, thanks! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572797 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:21:34 +0000 anonysquire 572797@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: Lol Kelly from third grade? Hahahha! And yes my whole family knows about our infertility issues but still I don't think they get them. My sister was always making comments like you need to try longer and that I'm acting all crazy about wanting a baby. Ya.... easy for someone to say who got pregnant the first month she tried.... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572787 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:17:31 +0000 MsLipGloss 572787@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Shutterbug: you totally made me lol irl! :D But she was . . . she hit me with her lunchbox, and I got in trouble because I hit her back (because I was taller than she was . . . wtf?) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572779 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:14:58 +0000 Shutterbug 572779@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@MsLipGloss: haha that Kelly, what a b*tch</p> <p>@anonysquire: ((((hugs)))) and I totally feel you. It's hard when you can't have the thing you want the most in the world, and you have to put on a happy face while someone close to you gets to have it all. That definitely doesn't make you the worst person in the world, not even close! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572776 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:14:13 +0000 mlm2934 572776@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This isn't fertility related, but I live 2 hours from my hometown where my 3 siblings and dad live. No one invites me to things on the weekend and I can count on my fingers the visits to see me since I moved 9 years ago. It drives me mad and really hurts my feelings so I can at least relate to the not feeling included part. *hugs* emotions are hard - and jealousy is a natural one even if it does make us feel icky. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572757 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:07:50 +0000 pastemoo 572757@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Jealousy is the worst! It is hard to kick and it burns you up inside.<br /> I'm sorry you're going through this. The most important part is you are going THROUGH it--keep going and you will find yourself on the other side.<br /> Did you see the new blog post/letter?</p> <p>PS You are not the worst person ever. You are human and jealousy is a human emotion--and it is worst when it comes to fertility. Remember the first few minutes of the movie "Up?" </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572745 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 16:04:25 +0000 MsLipGloss 572745@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Is your sister aware of your fertility issues? Maybe she senses how hard it is for you? </p> <p>Infertility sucks. I am so, so sorry for you! I just wanted to give you a big (((hug))) and tell you that you are NOT the worst person ever. </p> <p>I mean, seriously, EVER includes people like Ivan the Terrible, Hitler, Jeffrey Dahmer, Kelly from my third grade class . . . . :P (That was my sick attempt at humor, but I thought you might appreciate it). </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/worst-person-ever-award-goes-to-me#post-572733 Mon, 18 Feb 2013 15:59:29 +0000 anonysquire 572733@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Ok so my little nephew is like 4 weeks old and I adore him! I am always loving on him and buying him everything I see and trying to talk to my sister and be interested in her life. As many of you know my sister has always been just not a warm person, and it was even worse during her pregnancy. She was just mean to all of us. </p> <p>Anyways I am a HORRIBLE person! I get so jeaous :( Everytime we all hang out I go home crying. I just want to have my own baby. And again I love the baby but I guess I am too immature to handle the fact that now I get no attention and everyone is focused on the baby and my sister. My parents don't txt or call anymore. The only time they let me come over is when I offer to help my mom with cleaning or setting up parties or something. Everyone else is constantly over at my sisters house or babysitting or whatever. I wait for an invitation and it never comes so then I sneakily text asking if my sister needs anything or a babysitter or dinner and she always says no. </p> <p>So I know I am sounding like a child. I guess I am having a much harder time dealing with my infertility. I talked to my mom about how we are starting the foster process and didnt get a very nice reaction from her last night. </p> <p>Help me not be so jealous! I feel like I dont even want to go over anymore when my sister and nephew are there because I am completely ignored. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-328510 Sat, 06 Oct 2012 14:07:08 +0000 daniellemybelle 328510@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My baby fever goes into remission for long stretches, and I will be so glad we're not TTC yet. And then - BAM. It hits me and there is no reasoning with me.</p> <p>We are helpless against our biological drive to continue the human race, it seems. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-327795 Fri, 05 Oct 2012 15:34:51 +0000 BSB 327795@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah. I want a baby right now and I feel like a bad person when I feel any jealousy around my pregnant friends or friends who just gave birth. </p> <p>I'm trying really hard to look at the perks of not TTC and waiting a year but sometimes it's really hard. </p> <p>It is harder to bond with some of my pregnant or mommy friends because of my jealousy and I feel bad for being such a crappy friend. It's just so much harder to talk babies when you can't have babies. :( Plus knowing that we were TTC for 8 months with no BFP made me a little bitter. </p> <p>How do I stop being that way? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-327758 Fri, 05 Oct 2012 15:09:54 +0000 JennyLayneAZ 327758@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have serious baby fever. Have had it for the last year or so. All of my friends already have babies though, so no pregnancies around me (well my cousin but she lives in a different state so I don't see her every week LOL). We just aren't in a comfortable spot financially right now. And we're getting married in December. And I feel like I'm rambling too LOL </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-327707 Fri, 05 Oct 2012 14:48:54 +0000 dc yoga bee 327707@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Meee. I just graduated law school, took the bar, and am waiting on a job and bar results. I just started a paid fellowship with a law firm, and now my baby fever is creeping back up! We want to start ttc after we've been married for a year (Mar), and I don't want to be pregnant in a wedding I"m in next summer. Ideally, I'll have a full-time job by next summer, and then we can throw caution to the wind. Because right now, a paid fellowship isn't enough cushion to feel comfortable ttc. But, I have fertility worries (which may or may not be substantiated), so who knows if there's ever a "right time." It may take me 2yrs to get a job! Gah, I'm rambling! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-327646 Fri, 05 Oct 2012 14:09:50 +0000 MrsBrewer 327646@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Agree!! I've had like 4 people on facebook announce in the last month or two....:-( </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-327626 Fri, 05 Oct 2012 14:03:43 +0000 annie624 327626@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I agree! I have baby fever in a bad, bad way. However DH doesn't even want to talk about it at this point :( But FB is exploding with baby announcements, it's crazy! Every day in my newsfeed I see where like eight or nine of my friends posted from "Baby Gaga." </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-264091 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 21:09:14 +0000 marionberry 264091@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is totally me! I've been TTC for five months now and everyone around me (it seems, but that's over amplified I'm sure) has been announcing they're pregnant. Now one of my best friends just got married and I feel like I'm in a race with her, and another friend will start trying in January. I feel like if things continue as they have been, they'll all be pregnant and I'll still be waiting. Not to mention my sister-in-law is pregnant too and my mom's on me to have a kid, but I don't want to talk to her about my struggles. I would kill for a baby...crossing my fingers maybe my luck will change and I'll get to POAS at the end of the month.</p> <p>To all of you who think about waiting, I'd say there is no time to wait. You may end up like me and it can take forever, and if you get lucky with a baby right away, there's nothing to be upset about. A baby is such a gift! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263610 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 01:57:22 +0000 Mrs squirreld 263610@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SweetMamaM: heheh glad i'm not alone!! :-) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263605 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 01:41:03 +0000 SweetMamaM 263605@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Hanzabelle: totally love baby showers, love planning them too! Only co-planning one of the three upcoming showers but loving the opportunity to go baby gear shopping and the chance to oooh and aaah over little baby clothes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263602 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 01:32:00 +0000 Mrs squirreld 263602@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@SweetMamaM: yaaaay hope all goes well at the end of the year for you! I totally LOVE baby showers... is that weird? Everyone seems to groan at them.... lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263601 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 01:30:51 +0000 Mrs squirreld 263601@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: awww :-( ... I totally agree with @SweetMamaM: though.. your relationship is definately what you should be focusing on...a warm nest for a little one to be brought into. Fertility problems must be so hard to deal with ontop of that so my hat goes off to you for being so strong! Goodluck with everything - you'll be swimming in no time!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263600 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 01:08:23 +0000 SweetMamaM 263600@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@bluestriped bee: awww that really sucks that you ran into some relationship issues but FWIW I think you are doing the right thing mending your relationship. I think you can never know what is going on behind closed doors so those friends who have kids may have other problems you can't see and wouldn't envy them if you could. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263599 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 00:58:04 +0000 BSB 263599@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>We were TTC for 8 months... no BFP and went to a ferility clinic, too. Then we ran into some relationship issues so now I'm not TTC. BFSF (Big fat sad face). :( I know we are doing the right thing in strengthening our marriage but now I'm looking at friends who are just starting to TTC and thinking they will have babies when I try again... Shoot, they might have two kids by the then. Then friends who are getting married now and I think they will probably have babies. I feel like everyone is swimming forward in life and I'm treading water. :/ </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-263593 Sun, 19 Aug 2012 00:44:08 +0000 SweetMamaM 263593@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Hanzabelle: yay! I hear you on the FB baby boom - I've literally just finished putting together gift bags for three different baby showers! We're trying in December (provided weight loss and acupuncturist can get my cycles on track) and I cannot wait! So savings conscious right now so we can achieve our financial goals as well as our health goals! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-262795 Fri, 17 Aug 2012 16:07:26 +0000 ChuckNorris 262795@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Hanzabelle: I can totally relate. One of my favorite coworkers is pregnant (with her 4th) right now of course I'm so happy for her but man I wish I had one too! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/i-want-a-baaaaaby#post-262747 Fri, 17 Aug 2012 15:21:03 +0000 avivoca 262747@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This is me, right now. I'm trying very hard to be patient, but it's not easy. While I'm truly happy for all of my friends, I want to be a part of it and it's hard to be on the outside looking in, so to say. </p>