https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 28 Apr 2026 21:01:06 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2268069 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:48:16 +0000 Mrs.KMM 2268069@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If he loves it, let him stay! I would definitely wait and pick him up after you go to the gym. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2268063 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:40:48 +0000 DillonLion 2268063@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I have guilt about how long LO is in care, but there's no ability to ever pick her up early, so it just is what it is. She's there from 7-6 and then sometimes we go to the gym after that! So, your kid is still in care less time than mine ;) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2268028 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:21:56 +0000 Adira 2268028@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: haha, yeah, mine used to have a tantrum if I showed up at 4:30, so now I make sure to show up right around 5:00 and then he's cool to leave. If all his friends are still there, he doesn't want to go! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2268026 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:21:43 +0000 LovelyPlum 2268026@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I'd let him stay! My LO loves school and is so happy there. Guilt-inducing, but also so awesome :happy: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2268016 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:18:26 +0000 snowjewelz 2268016@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>If he loves it, let him stay, more time for you! I haven't gone through this, but the mommy guilt shouldn't be as bad since he wants to stay anyway? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2268014 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:18:02 +0000 BandDmommy 2268014@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Adira: he asked me to leave yesterday. Lol </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267989 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 09:10:13 +0000 Adira 2267989@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>haha, I send my kids to daycare on my day off!</p> <p>I would definitely pick up your son sometime AFTER you go to the gym. Whether right after or even later is up to you. My kid doesn't like getting picked up before 5:00 from daycare, so that's when I aim to pick him up, even on my days off. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267946 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 08:49:09 +0000 californiadreams 2267946@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>i'd go after the gym </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267929 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 08:40:59 +0000 Alivoo01 2267929@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Since he's having a good time, I'd go to the gym and pick him up afterwards. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267858 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 07:34:03 +0000 FaithFertility 2267858@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: Awwww, I the Mommy guilt is awful but hey if he is happy?!?!?!? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267853 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 07:30:10 +0000 BandDmommy 2267853@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Mamaof2: makes you feel so loved.. Lol.. :). I guess it's a good sign they want to stay. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267830 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 07:06:28 +0000 Mamaof2 2267830@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: My kids are this way too - our DCP closes at 6pm and my DS asks me to pick him up at 5:59pm - as a compromise I work out 2 days a week after work at 4:15- 5:15 (instead of the evening) and then pick them up at 5:40ish. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267827 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 07:01:38 +0000 Smurfette 2267827@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I would just go pick him up after the gym. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267826 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:58:45 +0000 BandDmommy 2267826@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Pumuckl: He's 3. If I asked him, he would say "I don't want to go home." Like EVER. He hates going home, if he could play until he passed out he would. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267824 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:57:37 +0000 Pumuckl 2267824@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: I forgot how old your oldest is but have you thought about asking him what he prefers? My 28m old often surprises me by definitely having an opinion on easily comprehended situations. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267814 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:39:15 +0000 BandDmommy 2267814@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@Truth Bombs: Daycare at the gym, but it has a huge climbing apparatus that he loves. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267813 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:38:46 +0000 BandDmommy 2267813@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@looch: That's what I was thinking about doing, picking him up early Monday, Wednesday, and Friday and later on Tuesday and Wednesday. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267812 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:38:10 +0000 BandDmommy 2267812@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@blackbird: That's what I was thinking. It's a fun gym daycare but it's a little bit of a madhouse. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267807 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:33:29 +0000 looch 2267807@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I had my son picked up, I feel you on the guilt.</p> <p>It sounds like a good environment though, so maybe you can stagger, and pick him up some days early and others later? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267806 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:33:11 +0000 blackbird 2267806@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Why don't you just pick him up after the gym? I bet the gym daycare is less nice and fun than his preschool </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267805 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:32:53 +0000 Truth Bombs 2267805@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@BandDmommy: is he in the day care at the gym? If so, I would just leave him at school while you go to the gym. Seems silly to pick him up from school he loved just to put him in another day care situation. If it's play gym for him then I would keep picking him up and taking him. I pick my LO up around 4:30 every day and it already feels like I have so little time with her, I wouldn't want to push it back to 5:30 even though some days she definitely wants to stay at school and play with her friends! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/when-to-pick-up-son-from-daycare-mommy-guilt#post-2267800 Thu, 20 Aug 2015 06:29:23 +0000 BandDmommy 2267800@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>My son goes to preschool at Emilio Reggio inspired school and LOVES it. He goes everyday, hours are 6:30 - 6:30. My husband drops him off on his way to work and I pick him up after DD last nap. I am a WAHM but DD stays with me. I've been picking him up around 4:30 p.m. because that is when DD has finished her nap. However, he is having SO much fun he never wants to leave. Should I push back his pick up time to 5:30? After I pick him up, we go to the gym for an hour. I feel like a bad mom leaving him there when in theory I can pick him up. What would you do? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227921 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 15:19:15 +0000 danda 2227921@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I sometimes wear earplugs due to hubby's snoring with no issues. We also have an air purifier in our room that gives some nice white noise and prevents small noises on the baby monitor from waking me up. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227855 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 14:28:20 +0000 catlady 2227855@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH and I used to switch off on who got to wear ear plugs at night (or for which stretch of the night). It definitely helped us sleep better! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227805 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 13:43:15 +0000 birdofafeather 2227805@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wear earplugs off and on and I've never had a problem hearing LO when she needed me. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227477 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 09:18:50 +0000 SleepyMonkey 2227477@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I wear earplugs every night. I am a light sleeper. I can still hear my kids if they are crying or even just babbling but it helps dampen noise so i can fall asleep. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227384 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 08:02:24 +0000 FaithFertility 2227384@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Your ok, I realized that if DD cries in her room, the cry as come get me I hear her instantly....so the monitor is on but volume is off, I just started doing this and we both sleep much better!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227295 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 00:55:49 +0000 Cherrybee 2227295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's fine! I wear earplugs to minimize the impact of DH's snoring. I can still hear E when she wakes. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227289 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 00:14:18 +0000 daniellemybelle 2227289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>You're totally fine! We just don't use a monitor at all anymore. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/earplugs-at-night#post-2227288 Mon, 06 Jul 2015 00:07:15 +0000 Astro Bee 2227288@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>DH is a super light sleeper, and has worn earplugs ever since he started college over 15 yrs ago. He still does now that we have Q. He is normally the one that will wake up first and get him (and bring him to me if he's hungry) if he starts crying, but he's able to sleep through the normal sleep noises. No need to feel bad, a well-rested parent is better able to see to their child's needs. </p>