https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Sat, 18 Apr 2026 21:04:00 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323637 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 23:09:13 +0000 erwoo 323637@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's terrible. Sorry to hear about that. :(((( Try not to let her get to you... </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323567 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 21:47:23 +0000 petitstrawberry 323567@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow, and this is the "short list" :(. Lots of positive vibes to you this weekend! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323547 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 21:37:14 +0000 anonysquire 323547@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@chopsuey119: @ms.janedoe: @pastemoo: Thanks ladies. I shouldn't let her ruin my weekend. And it does help that everyone else thinks shes a beast lol. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323512 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 21:20:27 +0000 pastemoo 323512@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>LOTS of positive vibes!</p> <p>You can make it through this weekend! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323494 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 21:14:38 +0000 Turd Ferguson 323494@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Good luck, lady! At least (sorry, this sounds kinda bad) it seems like "everyone" is kind of in agreement that she's been...difficult. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323485 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 21:11:43 +0000 chopsuey 323485@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yikes. Your sister sounds like fun. :P<br /> I would just try to stay out of her way and have fun with the rest of the family!<br /> Sending happy thoughts your way! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323478 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 21:08:58 +0000 anonysquire 323478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@prettylizy:@mrsjyw: @MamaBehr: Thanks ladies. I will try and just hide this weekend! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323384 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 20:16:21 +0000 MamaBehr 323384@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>That's really horrible, I'm so sorry. That makes me angry and I don't even know her! I hope that when she comes off the hormones she realizes what a beast she has been. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323299 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 19:50:49 +0000 mrsjyw 323299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>YUCKKK... sending you my good thoughts, hope it works out ok this trip!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323295 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 19:50:13 +0000 prettylizy 323295@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>((hugs)) that's never fun. My go-to for tough situations like that is to be stupid and cheerfull. It's gotten me through a lot of tough spots. For someone like that, I tend to just ask a lot of leading questions and let them talk about themselves, they usually love to do that. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323289 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 19:47:49 +0000 anonysquire 323289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@spaniellove: Ya it has been like this our whole life. It's so hard, I have always wanted a little sister to hang out with and do eachothers nails and all that and she never wanted any of it. Oh well what can you do. I'm hoping I can better myself and just let things go. Thanks!</p> <p>@Coco Bee: Thank you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323278 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 19:42:48 +0000 Mrs. Pen 323278@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>aww you poor thing :(:( I am soooo sorry. That is so hard. sending you hugs!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323274 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 19:39:43 +0000 spaniellove 323274@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow. I'm going to hope part of this is hormones, although it sounds like things have always been quasi-crappy between you guys. It sounds like she's someone you can never win with. As much as you want to be supportive and do the right thing, in her mind she probably isn't capable of thinking about you or taking your perspective so she can't appreciate how much effort this takes for you. It still sucks but it gets a little easier when you let go of the hope that they'll appreciate you even a little bit. And huge hugs to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/need-positive-vibes-to-deal-with-my-sister#post-323219 Wed, 03 Oct 2012 19:15:57 +0000 anonysquire 323219@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>This weekend my whole family (Mom, Dad, brother, sister and her husband, me and my husband) is staying at my parents cabin friday to sunday. 2 weeks ago when we stayed at the cabin me and my pregnant sister got into it. </p> <p>Ever since she has been pregnant I have been supportive and been interested in everything. It has been hard for me because I so badly want to be pregnant now. This list is some of the things that have gone on since she has been pregnant.<br /> *She told me I only talk to her now that she is pregnant<br /> *She said she doesn't want me to throw the baby shower because I will make it all about me.<br /> *She bit my head off when I asked how far along she is and how she is feeling. (Seriously, even my poor mom backed away from her)<br /> *She makes me come over like every other week to paint something new. I really don't mind helping but she doesn't give me a thanks or anything.<br /> *I asked if she was eating deli meat and she blew up at me again, telling me never to give her pregnancy advice because I have never been pregnant. (I have been pregnant twice, she didn't know)<br /> *Called me an idiot for wanting to switch to a Reproductive specialist from the OB doc we both share.</p> <p>Anyways that is just a short list of what has gone on between us. And I am not perfect, but I walk with tip toes around her and she still blows up. I do not know what to do anymore, our relationship has always been tense and now I feel like it is over. Even my mom is siding with me on this one, and my dad and brother work with her and think she is unbearable. She has like 15 weeks left of the pregnancy I think. HELP! </p>