https://boards.hellobee.com/ Pregnancy, Baby and Parenting blog, by Hellobee en Tue, 07 Apr 2026 02:02:39 +0000 https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/5#post-1852478 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 18:41:37 +0000 marionberry 1852478@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@spaniellove: No. It only sounds like I'd go to MFM if I encountered issues. We don't have one on our medical staff so it would be a referral to a larger hospital for that. I'm going to ask at my next appt. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/5#post-1852426 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 15:54:47 +0000 spaniellove 1852426@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: Are you going to go to MFM with the twins? I thought it was automatic that they always sent you to MFM when you had multiples so they monitored you much closer anyway. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/5#post-1852386 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 14:36:59 +0000 dc yoga bee 1852386@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: Congratulations!!! So so happy to read this update! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1852371 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 13:56:06 +0000 Torchwood 1852371@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>I just want to chime in and say that I do agree with what @tequiero21 said about regretting not having the nt scan done. It probably wouldn't have changed our outcome, because I don't think our issues were severe enough that early that we would have done anything different, but we could have had more warning that something was wrong. I'll be having every test I can manage if we get pregnant again, because I would so rather know early than get blindsided later.</p> <p>But congratulations! I'm so happy to see a happy ending to this! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1852299 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 11:57:50 +0000 marionberry 1852299@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: Ya my office only did two ultrasounds with J but I'm hoping we get more with the twins.<br /> @Mrs. J: Thank you! It was quite a surprise but a happy one. I went in for sure that they would tell me I just had a blighted ovum. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1852297 Sun, 07 Sep 2014 11:54:53 +0000 Mrs. J 1852297@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: Somehow I missed this...CONGRATS! How crazy and amazing!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1848097 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 20:16:42 +0000 tequiero21 1848097@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: not sure about your ob, but mine had an us at every appt? At least majority. Think it's cuz pregnancy is considered high risk. But the nt scan us is much more detailed. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1848080 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 20:11:00 +0000 marionberry 1848080@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: I talked to dh about it and he thinks we should do it this time because of twins. So I'm going to think about it. I would love the extra ultrasound! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847905 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 18:11:02 +0000 sslm 1847905@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: so exciting!!! Congrats!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847900 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 18:06:53 +0000 tequiero21 1847900@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: the only reason I'd suggest the nt is because it's noninvasive. They measure the neck and take some blood. I would rather be prepared, but that's just me personally. Plus, u get to see the baby! Get more us pics hehe. I've also heard some moms regret not doing it because they found weird results later on that might have been cleared up w the nt scan. But i do think it's a matter of preference. Easier since u didn't do it w your first. :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847890 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 17:56:27 +0000 MrsStormy 1847890@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Congratulations! So exciting! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847735 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 16:18:44 +0000 QBbride 1847735@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Wow! Congrats! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847373 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 13:19:43 +0000 marionberry 1847373@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@LovelyPlum: Thank you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847370 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 13:18:12 +0000 LovelyPlum 1847370@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Amazing, amazing news!! Congratulations!!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1847336 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 13:02:00 +0000 marionberry 1847336@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: We didn't do an NT scan for my last pregnancy. I am under 30 so I don't know if it's even covered by insurance. I am a HUGE worrier and I'm afraid that whatever I might hear/find out would worry me more than just waiting until the 20 week ultrasound and seeing if there's a problem. I'm not sure though if they recommend it more for twins? Maybe you know? We have 3 weeks to decide.</p> <p>@.twist.: @JoJoGirl: @bushelandapeck: @getjazzy: @Happygal: @Honeygold89: @nana87: @delight: @yerpie110: @mrs. 64: @Mrs. Jump Rope: @Trailmix: @daniellemybelle: @mrsjyw: @Mrs. Confetti: @ShootingStar: @Mrs. Twine: @bhbee: @spaniellove: Ok I at least was able to add all of you who commented on this page, because I wanted to say thank you personally. So many of you I've known since I was crying monthly just trying to get pregnant with J. When I was at the RE praying for him I certainly never guessed I'd be pregnant with twins accidentally before he was even 1. It's going to be a BIG adjustment in our house and I'm a bit scared, but excited too! I'm just so thankful for the friends I have on HB. You are truly my salvation most days! And to any I couldn't add because going back pages would be rough..this goes out to you too. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846690 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 09:44:07 +0000 .twist. 1846690@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: haha it was the best kind of Holy Crap possible. :D That is really exciting. </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846397 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 07:27:13 +0000 JoJoGirl 1846397@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>OMG OMG!!!!! AAH! TWINS!!!!!!!!!! holy moly congrats! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846382 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 07:14:58 +0000 bushelandapeck 1846382@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: How exciting! Congratulations! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846379 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 07:10:41 +0000 getjazzy 1846379@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: AMAZING!!! Congratulations, wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months :heart: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846358 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 06:54:48 +0000 tequiero21 1846358@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: haha. Let's start a poll! Any reason for no nt scan? </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846347 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 06:45:42 +0000 Happygal 1846347@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Yeah! What a fun update. Congrats to you! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846289 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 04:56:43 +0000 marionberry 1846289@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: No way! I'm too much of a planner for that. We likely won't do the NT scan so we won't know about gender until 20 weeks and for me that's waiting long enough! I've got a nursery to plan. :wink: </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846282 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 04:03:05 +0000 tequiero21 1846282@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: thank god for moms! I'm assuming u aren't going to be team green? :) </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846230 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 23:31:45 +0000 Honeygold89 1846230@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>:grin: Congrats </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846176 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 22:14:34 +0000 nana87 1846176@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Congrats!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846169 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 22:04:55 +0000 delight 1846169@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@marionberry: yeah this is so awesome! Can't wait to follow this pregnancy with you over on the April board! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846167 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 22:03:24 +0000 yerpie110 1846167@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Double the congrats!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846163 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 22:01:06 +0000 marionberry 1846163@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@.twist.: You're right in saying HOLY CRAP! I'm so thankful for 8 more months to prepare for them! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846161 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 21:58:26 +0000 .twist. 1846161@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>Just seeing this now! Holy crap TWINS! Congratulations! Happy and healthy and totally boring 9 months!!!! </p> https://boards.hellobee.com/topic/lack-of-fetal-pole-at-6-weeks/page/4#post-1846150 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 21:48:43 +0000 marionberry 1846150@https://boards.hellobee.com/ <p>@tequiero21: I recently moved back to my hometown, so at least my mom is close. My husband is super helpful but there's 3 babies and only 2 of us so it's going to be a bit nuts! </p>